ShoalDiverSA
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dawn62669:I wasn't sure if there was a timeframe on when was safe and when you should stop diving. Was hoping 1st tri would be ok? Most wouldn't know they even were at the stage I will be. 6-8wks Better to be safe then sorry since there seems to be no definate answers.
Hi Dawn and everyone,
My wife and I fell pregnant 15 weeks ago (you've got to love technology!). I did a lot of reading on the subject with our previous pregnancy as we purchased all her SCUBA gear two days before we found out that she was pregnant . To answer your question, my summary of the generally held medical opinions is to cease diving as soon as you know you are pregnant.
The dilemma for us was finding the safest time to stop diving. Realistically you cannot guarantee that a pregnant woman won't dive, because there is a lag between conception and knowledge of the conception AND falling pregnant is not an exact science (effort does not always equal results). The logical extension of this is that no fertile woman who is trying to fall pregnant should dive. We did not feel that this was rational and continued diving together until she fell pregnant. She ceased diving as soon as she missed her period.
This last pregnancy, we had booked a dive trip to Mozambique for 4 days, which she had to sit out entirely (risk of malaria as well). Such are the sacrifices of parenthood.
I know that it slips easily from my tongue/fingertip as I do not bear the child, but the father also has to deal with the issue sensitively. During the first pregnancy, my wife did not want me to dive without her, so I stopped. For my birthday, 4 months into the pregnancy, she gave me a couple of dives as a gift and gave her blessing for me to continue diving. If I expect her to stop for our child's health then I must be prepared to do the same (albeit for different reasons).
I have found a wonderful alternative to her diving during pregnancy. We bought a digital camera and housing. I now take lots of photos during the dive. We sit at home and I give her a blow by blow (bubble by bubble) account of the dive while reviewing the photos.
I must admit that I am shocked by the maverick attitude displayed by certain people on the Board to their children's lives and wellbeing. Parenthood is a sacrifice - the sooner a parent realises this, the better for the family. Your life will change - this is unavoidable.
There are a thousand clever arguments why diving while pregnant should be OK and even more isolated examples of people who did it and got away with it. But our children are worth more to us than our diving.
All the best for your efforts to fall pregnant. Remember to not try too hard and above all else enjoy yourself!
Cheers,
Andrew