I know this is and old thread, but the video does show a common problem was in part responsible for this situation. The diver was bicycling like crazy and getting almost no propulsion out of her fins. Unfortunately I see this situation all too often.
Is it not amazing how in a persons panic from fear of dying they do everything possible to ensure their own death (removing regulator, removing mask, fighting off the person offering air and bolting for surface). Of course we do not know what happened after the video cuts off. Best speculation is a lung injury from holding her breath during the ascent. The person rendering assistance was not the DM of the dive, just another, experienced diver.