Our image in other people's eyes should ideally be entirely based on our actions and interactions, never on our appearance or on the accoutrements with which we surround ourselves.
We may be social animals, but some solitude is also an absolute necessity. I prefer to dive alone, without an audience. An ideal dive for me is a solo dive off some isolated beach.
People who bask in the glow of their possessions, or who derive their self-image from material things and external appearances have serious maturity problems. I can honestly say that I have never bought a single piece of equipment with any thought for how others might react to it. The idea is ridiculously absurd. That some people do have such motivations is a very sad commentary.
I agree with you... still, the reality deviates from what we'd like it to be... and sadly, perhaps to some extent it's even justified? Appearance affects life outside of diving. I noticed, for example, that I'm treated differently by flight attendants, and the likes, depending on whether I wear a suit, or baggy clothes. It's 2015 in a modern society, but still... In many professions, it would be hard to do business if you don't care about appearance. I think it's safe to assume that the same kinds of biases and prejudices are present in diving. While it sounds quite terrible, caring about one's image might even make a bit of sense...
