Hi,
You have to be able to hold the regulator COMFORTABLY in your mouth.
If you do the apicoectomy, you probably won't be comfortable enough to dive for a week, maybe more. Baring complications, the bone surgery will already be filled with a clot and sutured. The sutures should be removed if not resorbable.
Eventhough it takes months for the bone to completely heal, you can go back to diving fairly quickly.
My guess is that it will take about 2-3 weeks for you to be able to hold the regulator. That should be long enough.
If you do the implant, the device actually plugs the hole and there is usually much less discomfort than an apico. Often you only need a dose or two of meds and that's it.
It's NOT a good idea to load an implant immediately unless it is inherently stable. Your regulator may transfer bite forces to the implant through indirect contact with either overlying gum tissue or through the healing abutment.
If the regulator puts no pressure on the implant, 3 weeks should be OK. There is no research about diving and implant healing.
Ask the surgeon about how stable the implant is immediately after surgery. Go with her recommendations.
Actually, I think the surgeon was more realistic for the same reasons I mentioned in the prior post. A second opinion is fine. Unfortunately, my opinion is not based on YOUR mouth but simply a hypothetical image I have of your description of your mouth. There are certainly times that apicoectomy is a reasonable procedure.
Apicoectomy for molars is complex surgery with variable results--often on teeth that have only have a questionable future. There is risk of mandibular nerve damage.
Make sure your dentist is able to restore the implant. There is some prepreparation that needs to be completed prior to surgery by the dentist (fabricate a stent for implant position during surgery, impression jig for first stage surgery impression taking for the purpose of anatomical temporaries, etc.). Make sure the surgeon and the restorative dentist are both consulted and are "synchronized".
Good luck. Let me know how the surgery goes. We'll splash it all over the internet!
Laurence Stein DDS
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