Hi Dan,
Based on other contact that we have had, it appears that you are not entirely satisfied with the responses you have received here to date.
As such, allow me to unite, clarify and expand upon what has been said.
First, let's clarify some language and concepts. When nitrogen, and other inert gases such as helium, come out of solution within the tissues and form bubbles they can cause a subcategory of decompression illness (DCI) called decompression sickness(DCS). "The bends" is common, not scientific or medical, terminology for a subcategory of DCS known as Type I, or joint-pain only, DCS. When such bubbles emerge in peripheral nerves, spinal cord or brain, they can cause Type II, or neurological, DCS. The latter frequently is more serious than the former, and sometimes very much more serious.
DCS-related problems with urinary bladder control are considered Type II, or neurological. Without going into detail that exceeds your needs, such problems are the result of inert gas bubbles affecting the spinal cord, a neurological structure which plays an intimate role in the functioning of muscles that control the bladder.
When the bladder become full, nerve endings in the bladder wall send a message to the brain via the spinal cord. The brain sends a message back to the bladder to contract one set of muscles (the detrusor muscles) and relax another (the sphincter muscles) so that one can urinate. If you can't get to an appropriate location to void, the brain delays (within reason) the messages until you can.
Gas bubbles in areas of the sacral level of the spine (
http://www.spineabilene.com/images/pop_up/an_column.jpg) can result in the interruption of transmissions between bladder and brain and cause inability to void and uncontrolled voiding (incontinence). The process is the same in males and females and manifests itself similarly.
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DocVikingo