Thanks, guys and girls. It helps.
I'll tell you one thing: if you go through something like the loss of a kid and don't learn anything from it, your life is a total waste. I learned what was important. I love my work - my patients and colleagues - but work is no longer my life. My life is on the schoolbus, or on a scout campout, or sitting at home weaving. My life goes diving with me.
There is no sense in not planning for the future, but it's critical not to live in it. The only time you're certain to get is right now. That means that the time to live is now.
I'll tell you one thing: if you go through something like the loss of a kid and don't learn anything from it, your life is a total waste. I learned what was important. I love my work - my patients and colleagues - but work is no longer my life. My life is on the schoolbus, or on a scout campout, or sitting at home weaving. My life goes diving with me.
There is no sense in not planning for the future, but it's critical not to live in it. The only time you're certain to get is right now. That means that the time to live is now.