You will have problems sourcing overhaul kits and replacement parts for the Dacor octo.
You shouldn't have any issues getting the Seaquest Infinity and Oceanic Prodigy serviced.
If you are intent on using the reg setup, I'd recommend replacing the octo with a second stage that is easy to service. It's probably best to go with the same brand as the first/second stage you already own (Seaquest/Aqualung). This will simplify reg servicing in the future. You can purchase a used octo on Ebay or Craigslist for $50 or less, depending on how patient you are.
Another option is to purchase a new octo from a reputable online retailer like ScubaToys.
Once you've replaced your octo, take advantage of ScubaToys' current reg service deal ($50 all in -- includes the cost of overhaul parts and labor). You can't beat it. Bear in mind that this doesn't cover the replacement of parts not included of the overhaul kit, e.g., mouthpieces, second stage diaphragms, other broken metal parts, exhaust valves, broken exhaust tee, etc. The reg will be returned to you in a ready-to-dive condition. If you want the battery replaced in the Prodigy computer, let the guys at ScubaToys know. They'll do that servicing for a nominal fee (<$10).
If you are intent on using the Dacor octo, you will likely have to go the DIY route. You'll need to figure out where to source the o-rings and low pressure seats on your own. This can be challenging even if you know what you're doing. I wouldn't recommend that a beginner diver do this.
Thanks for supporting SUDS. From everything I've heard about it, it sounds like a worthwhile cause.