So uh, root cause is sort of embarrassing. I have a tendency not to wrench my connectors just because I swap my regs around a lot. I've been wrenching my necklace for a while just because it comes unscrewed pretty easily because it can spin on the short hose. The others I do a quick visual on and call it good. So uh, I get thirsty while I dive, so with my 109s I'd just slip a bit of water into my mouth and slosh it around. With these HOG seconds, I can't open my mouth in a way that lets water in because my mouth just fills with more air. So, I'd taken my reg out all the way for this purpose, and I guess I'd taken it out by the body instead of by the hose, so in twisting it down to fill it with water (prevent loud mess) I think it got loosened further. Then I put it back in and moved the hose a bit and some air started coming out. I tried screwing it back in-place, but the oring had split along the side.
It was the hose o-ring, and I usually grease it pretty generously, but it looks like I got complacent.
Oral inflation would have been possible, but I had a drysuit on, was breathing off my necklace and was doing an ascent from 30' or so. I inflated orally as soon as I hit the surface, but sort of couldn't be bothered on the way up. It seemed like it might be more stress.
I've been diving mostly freshwater. Many times in Bodensee, which is the exact opposite of Monterey -- deep, good vis, no life, huge rock reliefs. A few inverts. Some places are much colder than Monterey too: I've seen in the 30s. This dive was in Blindsee (Tirol, Austria). Saw a big zander, which I'd previously thought was a walleye, but it looked more like what I'd know as a sauger, and a ton of fallen trees. Also dove some baggersees (pebble quarries?), one of which had some huge (several feet long) carp, another of which had some intentionally sunken crap. Turns out I'm way less stoked on diving a VW than I expected.