You know as well as I do, the parts for life is a gimmick. The total cost of a parts kit is just a few dollars at most but when they sell it, the mark up is unreal. The "free parts" are the bait to keep you on the service hook for years, get off the hook and they burn you good for leaving with high parts cost.
I don't need any engineering data, it's easy for any half way competent tech to determine if a part needs replacing or not. LP seats take a set which is most of the reason you replace them, not because they are going bad, modern materials simply do not deteriorate that fast. The Orings in a second stage are ambient seals, with almost no pressure differential across them and they have a service life of many years in much worse service than scuba regs, auto brake calipers for example. Exhaust valves and diaphragms are either torn or not, modern silicone materials do not go hard like the old rubber ones and if they do, it will show up when the reg is tested.