I talk it over with the dive guide. What has usually been the case for most day-trip insta-buddy (same-ocean-buddy/) dives is:
I signal my usable gas remaining. Diving sidemount I add up both pressure readings, and subtract 500 psi (instead of surfacing with a minimum of 500 in one tank, I have to have 500 in each tank). At the beginning of a dive starting with 3250 in each tank, I'd be signaling 6000. Towards the end of the first dive with 2000 and 2200 remaining, I signal 3700. Toward the end of the second dive, with 1300 and 1000, I signal 1800.
For doubles, I'd do the same, but instead of adding two gauges, simply double your pressure and subtract 500.
At least this way the remaining air message remains consistent among all divers.