divinaggie
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Several years ago, my gf decided to get certified. She had been to Cozumel multiple times with me and always watched while I went diving everday and a few evenings while we were down there.
Having DM'd a fair amount of classes while getting my PADI A.I. cert, and having seen the g/f wife & boyfriend/husband dynamic multiple times, I decided to let her do it completly on her own. Worst decision I have ever made and still feel the guilt several years later.
Naui instructor. 1st open water certification dive. Fairly cold water, divers wearing full 6 mil wet suits, etc.. She had complained about the wet suit being "tight" around her chest to the dive shop (not a word to me), was told it would be alright, it will loosen up. After a few minor skills, divers were told to pull an "unconcious diver" (the DM) from the bottom of the pond without inflating the bc or dropping their weights. He weighed well over 250 lbs closer to 300, full 6 mil wet suit, weights etc.. My gf weighs 110 with weights on. Pond 30-40' deep-not sure about that one? When she got about halfway up with him, she was under so much physical stress she hyperventilated. She signaled instructor she basically was out of air. He exhorted her to continue, etc.. She tried to continue, couldnt, dropped the diver, clawed her way to the surface and nearly passed out. While not certain of wether this was a nearly fatal incident, I am certain that her instructor is a certified idiot and shouldnt be teaching anyone anything.
She was administered oxygen on the dock, and was looking pretty green when i pulled up to pick her up. To say I was a little shocked would be to put it mildly. However, I had the presence of mind to really listen to what the instructor and dm version of events were BEFORE I ask any questions of her, the instructor and the dm before rendering any kind of judgement.
On the way home, one of the most pertinent questions i asked her was if they had practiced that "skill" in the pool at the LDS. No. Were they given any instructions on how to do it? Not that she recalled. She is pretty honest when it comes to stuff like that, if she had f'd up, she would have told me.
She was very concerned that she wasnt going to get her certification, and I basically told her that getting back in the water was completely her own decision, but she had to know that the instructor told me the skill had to be completed before he could certify her as well as for the skills she needed to do on the 2nd dive of that afternoon.
She chose to come back the next day, inflated fat butt's bc as much as she could, then watched him rocket to the surface and kind of held on for the ride while exhaling the entire way to the surface (wonder where she got that advice?). Et touche. She got scolded for that, got her cert, and has since become the best dive buddy ever.
Having DM'd a fair amount of classes while getting my PADI A.I. cert, and having seen the g/f wife & boyfriend/husband dynamic multiple times, I decided to let her do it completly on her own. Worst decision I have ever made and still feel the guilt several years later.
Naui instructor. 1st open water certification dive. Fairly cold water, divers wearing full 6 mil wet suits, etc.. She had complained about the wet suit being "tight" around her chest to the dive shop (not a word to me), was told it would be alright, it will loosen up. After a few minor skills, divers were told to pull an "unconcious diver" (the DM) from the bottom of the pond without inflating the bc or dropping their weights. He weighed well over 250 lbs closer to 300, full 6 mil wet suit, weights etc.. My gf weighs 110 with weights on. Pond 30-40' deep-not sure about that one? When she got about halfway up with him, she was under so much physical stress she hyperventilated. She signaled instructor she basically was out of air. He exhorted her to continue, etc.. She tried to continue, couldnt, dropped the diver, clawed her way to the surface and nearly passed out. While not certain of wether this was a nearly fatal incident, I am certain that her instructor is a certified idiot and shouldnt be teaching anyone anything.
She was administered oxygen on the dock, and was looking pretty green when i pulled up to pick her up. To say I was a little shocked would be to put it mildly. However, I had the presence of mind to really listen to what the instructor and dm version of events were BEFORE I ask any questions of her, the instructor and the dm before rendering any kind of judgement.
On the way home, one of the most pertinent questions i asked her was if they had practiced that "skill" in the pool at the LDS. No. Were they given any instructions on how to do it? Not that she recalled. She is pretty honest when it comes to stuff like that, if she had f'd up, she would have told me.
She was very concerned that she wasnt going to get her certification, and I basically told her that getting back in the water was completely her own decision, but she had to know that the instructor told me the skill had to be completed before he could certify her as well as for the skills she needed to do on the 2nd dive of that afternoon.
She chose to come back the next day, inflated fat butt's bc as much as she could, then watched him rocket to the surface and kind of held on for the ride while exhaling the entire way to the surface (wonder where she got that advice?). Et touche. She got scolded for that, got her cert, and has since become the best dive buddy ever.