I've done all my swim tests so far sidestroke, because like you, I couldn't master the breathing for the freestyle.
But this spring, I got some coaching for the first time. What the coach (who is one of our best friends) taught me was this: There is actually a sort of hollow formed between your neck and your shoulder that is somewhat protected from the water when you are lifting your arm to bring it forward for the next stroke. You tuck your chin into that space to take the breath, and you don't end up sucking in a bunch of water when you inhale. At that moment, your torso is rotated as well, lifting that shoulder slightly out of the water.
If you do what I used to do, and try to LIFT your head up to get your mouth clear of the water to breathe, you slow yourself down a ton, and worse, you splash water into your mouth, suck it in a choke (or at least I did).
I don't know if this description will help you very much, but if it doesn't, at least the information that good coaching can solve this problem should help. The day my friend worked with me, I went from being able to swim about twenty feet before choking to being able to swim the whole length of the pool, so the improvement happens fast.
Good luck with this!
But this spring, I got some coaching for the first time. What the coach (who is one of our best friends) taught me was this: There is actually a sort of hollow formed between your neck and your shoulder that is somewhat protected from the water when you are lifting your arm to bring it forward for the next stroke. You tuck your chin into that space to take the breath, and you don't end up sucking in a bunch of water when you inhale. At that moment, your torso is rotated as well, lifting that shoulder slightly out of the water.
If you do what I used to do, and try to LIFT your head up to get your mouth clear of the water to breathe, you slow yourself down a ton, and worse, you splash water into your mouth, suck it in a choke (or at least I did).
I don't know if this description will help you very much, but if it doesn't, at least the information that good coaching can solve this problem should help. The day my friend worked with me, I went from being able to swim about twenty feet before choking to being able to swim the whole length of the pool, so the improvement happens fast.
Good luck with this!