The DM requirement is outdated. You can no longer dive Town Pier-it is off limits, Salt Pier on the other hand you can dive anytime AS LONG AS no boat is docked at it (as of this July).
The other 2 unfriendly dive ops that I am aware of (at least to non-customers) is Capt Dons and Bonaire Dive and Adventure (at Den Laman)
Only if you don't pay them....lol. Although Habitat charges a usage fee even if you bring tanks on-site. Never tried that at BD&A.
I checked the Bellafonte website and it says they are partnered with 2 dive ops, Dive Friends and Wannadive. If Bellafonte is where I think it is,
It is - in north Belnem.
Wannadive has a site very close by (at Windsock Apts) so odds are they would be the best op for you. Great folks and dive op so no issues there. Regardless, it us usually best if you work with a dive shop that is partnered with your resort, you don't have to but it usually works best so if it were me, I would used one of those 2.
Dive Friends has a site at Port Bonaire nearby also. One reason I'd choose them over Wannadive is that tanks are easier to get to at several of their locations - at two they're literally feet from the parking area.
Dive Friends does boat dives from Port Bonaire as well as their Yellow Sub location on the north side. Wannadive only does boat dives from Eden Beach on the north side of town since you can't get a boat in at Windsock. Dive Friends also has 4 boats. Not as big an issue if you only plan to shore dive but you'll miss any of the Klein Bonaire sites doing that. Also Rappel would be rather difficult from shore. Dive Friends also makes an effort to only dive boat dive sites not also shore accessible.
If you're arriving at an odd time, Dive Friends will do the BMP orientation/dive from any of their dive facilities at any time during business hours with slight advance notice. Most shops schedule it around 9AM since that's a typical time for guests arriving the night before or on the redeye thru Houston. Also afaik, the BMP Orientation from Wannadive is at their Eden Beach site on the north side - not at Windsock since it's just a "service point". herman may've had a different experience since their group booked all of Windsock that week. Also herman possibly has been there more than once this year so his old one was still good.
Port Bonaire is just off the end of the airport for reference. A 2min drive from Bellefonte.
Also:
Since Dive Friends Bonaire has five locations on the island, your shore diving is even more convenient. You can pick up and exchange tanks at all five Dive Friends locations, so no matter where you are on the island, there's a Dive Friends location nearby.
WannaDive has 4 but two of them are not useful - their Dive Hut site exchange is for Dive Hut guests only and their Sorobon site isn't convenient to anything as Sorobon is near Lac Bay on the East Side. Lac Bay is the windsurfing bay.
Bellefonte is also close to BelMar Condos, the other Buddy Dive operation is there. They send a boat down 2-3x per week and you also get use of the Buddy Dive drive-thru on the north side if you buy a dive package thru them. So it's a third option. Neither Wannadive at Windsock or Buddy Dive at BelMar are optimal for non-guests due to tank availability - at both your
room key gets you into the tank storage areas 24/7.
Three of Dive Friends locations are 8-5. At Hamlet and Sand Dollar it's 8:30-4:30. Hamlet is off the Cliff dive site and Sand Dollar is at Bari Reef - the other way to access Bari. There's also a parking area south of Den Laman for free access but it's a slightly rougher entry.
If your group was interested, you can rent a Naturalist at Bonaire Dive & Adventure and do a REEF fishcount there also - it's the site in the Caribbean with the most counted species of fish. My buddy did it - he counted 185 species - the naturalist carries a waterproof fish card and points them out. If the book you mentioned is Bonaire Shore Diving Made Easy, Dive Friends can set up a guided shore dive with the author - Susan Porter for an additional fee.
My .02 - I'd go with Dive Friends for the unlimited package and ala carte some of the other dives - including boat dives. Many people dive within the limits of the best all-inclusive deal, I prefer to pay when convenient. I don't think we paid more than $15 to dive 2 tanks at any of the north side resort dives - saved hauling ours from the parking lot. Or at Habitat also down/up the hill.
I rarely disagree with herman but I think it makes more sense to go with Dive Friends over Wannadive in your situation.