I love Bonaire, and I totally accept the fact that crime happens everywhere and you have to be careful. The thing that bothers me about Bonaire is that crime against tourists is so widely accepted and no one is interested in trying to stop it - and it's been that way for decades. It irks me that the prevailing attitude is "you're a tourist so you should expect to be victimized - and if you are then it is your own fault that you didn't take unusual precautions."
I also love the Caymans and although they have long enjoyed the reputation as a "Safe Travel Destination" they have seen a recent increase in crime. But if you thoroughly research the Cayman News sources you will also see that the authorities are taking strong stances against the criminals, there have been a lot of arrests, speedy trials, and the courts are sentencing convicted villains to stiff sentences. Much heavier than many of the sentences handed down in my home town.
The Cayman authorities seem very aware of the value of their tourism industry and they are trying to prevent and deter crimes and protect their economy. I don't know if they will succeed, but I appreciate that they care and that they are trying to protect locals and tourists, unlike the authorities on Bonaire.
Recently I read an article in the Cayman Compass about a guy that had been partying all night near the West Bay Marina, he became rowdy and started insulting the locals and tourists and he even knocked some dive tanks off the pier and into the water. The Cayman Islands police responded and arrested him for various crimes including "insulting the modesty of a woman!" I loved that phrase, it just seemed just so "old fashioned and Caymanian" to me. Not only do they have a law against "insulting the modesty of a woman" but they are actually willing to enforce it - God Bless Them!
I don't actually expect Bonaire to go "all medieval" in their prosecutions against criminals, but I really wish that they showed any signs that they actually care and are sincerely trying to make things better.