BMCM/MDV Roy Mowen Memorial was today

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It's not exactly dive-stuff, but Roy was a friend and he was a Master Diver with the Navy. He dived in everything from hardhat to free diving. He helped inspire me to get certified....

I attended BMCM/MDV Roy Mowen’s memorial at Ft. Rosecrans Military Cemetery, in San Diego, today. The ceremony was very moving.

Roy passed away two weeks ago. He had been in ill health for a number of years.
I’ve known Roy since I was fifteen. He was someone I looked up to as I was growing up. Much of what he did for the Navy as a Master Diver was classified. He didn’t have a chest full of medals; many of the operations he was involved in didn’t get ribbons due to the nature of the operations. But, then Roy wasn’t a "medal wearing" kind of guy.

I remember something he said to me when I was a teenager having significant difficulties in the my relationship with my father. He understood some of what I was going through, I think. Very quietly and very much in private in our back yard, Roy told me that he thought the world of me. He said "So does your Dad. Only he loves you more than I ever will." Then he left me alone.

My relationship with my Dad got better over time. Dad passed away in 1991. I still miss him.

I’ll miss Roy, too.

His ashes were scattered at sea off Point Loma.

Next time I dive, I’ll know that Roy is in the water with me.

Just wanted to share this all. Take a moment and tell the one you care about that you love them. That’s how Roy would have wanted to be remembered.
 
Thanks for that. Great story for all of us to consider.

Having lost both of my parents over the last several years, I know the loss you feel. We rarely consider that someone could be missing from our lives until it happens. Best to say how you feel while there is still time. I wish I had known Roy.

Merry Christmas to you...

Jon
 

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