Me and a friend were in Egypt with a random group of foreigners.
One of them was a police woman from Germany. As you can imagine she was not the most open type of person.
My buddy and I made it our "mission" to help her relax. We integrated into their group. We befriended her and became one of the club.
In the course of the week we were there she warmed up to us. In the 'pub', which was just a Bedouin tent near the edge of camp, she told us about her work, about murders, about how it was to be a police officer in Germany and how it affected her.
On the last day we there together. My friend and I were smoking the shisha and drinking beer. She had opened up enough that she sat between us and eventually fell asleep. She laid down between us and fell deep in sleep and started snoring. My friend looked at me and said, "mission accomplished!"
What I liked about this is that as divers we meet each other in a particular context and sometimes forget our "real lives". Our German friend eventually relaxed enough that her job no longer affected her ability to lay down with friends and sleep. Her guard was 100% down.
When do we get that in our real lives?
That's what diving does. It allows us to drop our guard 100%.
R..
One of them was a police woman from Germany. As you can imagine she was not the most open type of person.
My buddy and I made it our "mission" to help her relax. We integrated into their group. We befriended her and became one of the club.
In the course of the week we were there she warmed up to us. In the 'pub', which was just a Bedouin tent near the edge of camp, she told us about her work, about murders, about how it was to be a police officer in Germany and how it affected her.
On the last day we there together. My friend and I were smoking the shisha and drinking beer. She had opened up enough that she sat between us and eventually fell asleep. She laid down between us and fell deep in sleep and started snoring. My friend looked at me and said, "mission accomplished!"
What I liked about this is that as divers we meet each other in a particular context and sometimes forget our "real lives". Our German friend eventually relaxed enough that her job no longer affected her ability to lay down with friends and sleep. Her guard was 100% down.
When do we get that in our real lives?
That's what diving does. It allows us to drop our guard 100%.
R..