thanks for the reco guys. actually if i had not gone into diving i probably have a mac right now hehehe
seriously though, i can't got the mac way as i'm running locally developed software that i use both at the office and at home.
i used to run the following:
antivirus: avg & avast my anti virus (yes it auto updates and i scans every 2 days)
firewall: zone alarm
anti spy: ad aware (i still do)
that's until a last weeks when spammers apparently "used" my broadband provider based email account for spamming...the account actually got banned and i got a "Your IP has been logged" email from an "FBI" agent who's email address is "agentname"@fbi.gov
that's why i'm searching for "better" solutions (i agree that these security suites will never be perfect)...i have very critical local data that i have to protect but can't delete from my pc at home...thus the need for the suite or an alternative solution