Ok a few replies. As you probably guessed i like the airII, actually i use an Apex Octo+ which has been used for 6 years without any major problem, my GF has an Aqualung version also without any problem. the only minor fault has been sometimes they seem to get salt crystals trapped and free flow a little until they are fully wet again, but i have seen this on primaries as well.
Mike F comment that they are cheap junk seems to be negated by this, mine works fine.
Deflating as you ascend?, i delfate then ascend, at the top of post i said this was relavent to recreational diving with singles. So i deflate then with AIRII in MY mouth go up with buddy breathing off my primary (correct use, not buddy using AIRII that would be near impossible).
I am not anti long hose it just seems uneccesary for recreational diving, and in my region i am now seeing lots of divers using this principal, i think more due to the fact it looks cool.
I have not yet experienced a diver coming to me low on air in an actual situation, but can imagine that in worst case scenario a panicked diver is just going to snatch your primary without asking, what happens with a long hose round your neck?
I think that reefrat offered the best compromise, in a slighlty longer hose routed under your arm with a swivel on the primary.
This could be used euiether with backup on a necklace or airII and i may change my primary to this arrangement now.
I can see benefits to both the necklace and AirII systems, but think that the 'convential' setup is severely lacking in other than the initial trianing scenario, where novice divers can easily learn to pass regs between each other. But once that stage is passed the spare reg either gets stuck in a pocket or left to dangle and basically forgotton about, leading to poor dive practices.