First of all, thank you for all of your responses. I highly value the opinions of other divers and is why I ask. I know everyone has a different opinion but together they all matter. I have done quite a bit of research, too much in fact, and considering that the prices of airfare have gone up and my wife's opinion, we have chosen Belize this time. We really wanted to go to Thailand, however, the price of airfare has gone up and we want to be able to plan it a bit sooner. Airfare to Belize is very cheap. Regardless, however, the prices overall for both places are the same essentially, but the wife chose Belize to my surprise and so we will go there.
Now I am left with another decision that maybe you all could help me on. We can either stay at Huracan Diving or at Itza Lodge, both on Long Caye at Lighthouse Reef Atoll. All the diving would be done at around the Lighthouse Atoll, but the only issue is that they don't have nitrox available yet. They are halfway done with installing it and the gentlemen I am in contact with says there is a 95% chance it will be done. It is an all inclusive resort so it includes room, meals and 18 dives around Lighthouse.
The other option is staying in Hopkins at a resort I found there, which is really nice, and diving with Belize Underwater dive shop. We would conduct 6 dives at South Water Caye, 6 dives at Glover's Atoll, 3 dives at Turneffe Atoll and 3 dives at Blue Hole/Lighthouse Atoll for a total of 18 dives. They too are installing their Nitrox but she said they will have it done for sure when we arrive. For the room and 18 dives there, it is cheaper by about $400 but will be $800 cheaper once I include nitrox at the Lighthouse option. So, its cheaper, but it doesnt include meals, but I like this too because then we can experience the culture and choose our own meals.
My question is obvious, I think, which of these 2 options is a better idea? Is the diving at Lighthouse Atoll so amazing that it is a no-brainer decision? Or, is the diving amongst south water caye, glovers atoll and the other two atolls a better experience overall? Research suggests that Lighthouse is the decision hands down with Glovers and Turneffe trading places for 2nd and 3rd depending on who you talk to. Sorry for the long post but this is where we are at right now. Thanks everyone!