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sharkdiver00:
Sue ba lips, thanks for your comment and I not only agree with it, but also try very hard not to let that negative energy ruin my day.

I would only like to add that our SO, friends, coworkers, whoever.... are not the only ones that do silly or infurating things. We have to remember that we also do lots and lots of things that will qualify as infurating or frustrating to them.

peace :)

You are so right. It is hard for me to remember that I am not perfect either. Sometimes it seems like it, but if I look real hard, I can always find half a flaw. Ha ha
 
My husband is also my dive buddy. He got me into Scuba about a year ago. Now he's not so sure he likes diving. Our next trip (Grand Cayman in January) is a do or sell the equipment trip. It's aggravating! I'm hooked and he's not sure. I'm not mad at him... yet.
 
jrdivagrl:
Where have all the women gone? No more posting, or getting mad at men? Im getting bored! So i though i would start a new post! I dont know what about but anyone can add things here! You mad at your husband? Let us know! Make it interesting!
Hello young diva! I just had to drop a line or two after reading this post (lol). You've mentioned how much you love to scuba and everything about it! However, there is alot more to this forum and being a woman than being angry at men all the time. I know you are young and there is still alot to learn and understand and I hope we haven't given you that impression!

Believe it or not men can be our friends, they can also be a shoulder to lean on and even your dive buddy but most important they can serve as another pocket to dip in when your broke (lol), just kidding!)
 
CathyI8205:
My husband is also my dive buddy. He got me into Scuba about a year ago. Now he's not so sure he likes diving. Our next trip (Grand Cayman in January) is a do or sell the equipment trip. It's aggravating! I'm hooked and he's not sure. I'm not mad at him... yet.
Hi Cathy, can you tell us more? My husband got me into diving as well and I'd like to hear what could have caused your husband to lose interest..
 
CathyI8205:
My husband is also my dive buddy. He got me into Scuba about a year ago. Now he's not so sure he likes diving. Our next trip (Grand Cayman in January) is a do or sell the equipment trip. It's aggravating! I'm hooked and he's not sure. I'm not mad at him... yet.
If your husband isnt hooked then look for others who are buddyless. We all dont have the same interests as our partners but thats no reason to feel you have to give up what you love. If you have a good man you are fortunate and be proud of that. My man dives but not an avid diver as myself and I have met other couples and singels to dive with. They also have become great friends for me and my guy to spend time with doing things besides diving. Ask your husband to go with you and hang at the beach when you go. He'll know you want him still there and can meet your new friends together. Even trips such as the one your planing can still include diving. He can go along on the boat. Partners should support each other. Likewise you would do the same for him. Aloha, Kini
 
Sue-ba Lips:
For me at least, life is too short to waste on being onery and holding grudges.

AMEN, sistah! Another cliche', but well worth considering:

"Don't sweat the small stuff."

Foo
 

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