Where have all the women gone? No more posting, or getting mad at men? Im getting bored! So i though i would start a new post! I dont know what about but anyone can add things here! You mad at your husband? Let us know! Make it interesting!
Been a bit slow around here
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silly! "mad at your husband" has to go next door, in non-diving related. unless it's "mad at your dive buddy, who also happens to be your husband". that would probably work here.
either way, i can't help ya out. i'm single. and happy.
dm
either way, i can't help ya out. i'm single. and happy.
dm
newbie@scuby
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I'm mad at mine...does that help
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jrdivagrl,
my first response to your post was a little slick, and it may have left a false (bad) impression about men and women, and male-female relationships.
i am happy being single, most of the time.
i was never unhappier than when a very important 10-year relationship was ending. and i was never happier than when that relationship was thriving.
for me, at least, life is richer shared by two. not everyone feels that way, but when you read your sisters' and brothers' complaints and barbed jokes about their spouses, S/Os, etc., take them with a grain of salt. a bulletin board like this one sometimes serves as a safety valve, and doesn't necessarily characterize a poster's true feelings, or at least the entirety of them.
you may simply be seeing us at our most pissed off, silliest, cantakerous, provocative, or whatever.
yawn. it's late. my train of thought is running out of gas, or steam, or whatever trains run on. but if i sent one message earlier, i hope i'm sending another now: men are not the enemy.
g'night....
judy
my first response to your post was a little slick, and it may have left a false (bad) impression about men and women, and male-female relationships.
i am happy being single, most of the time.
i was never unhappier than when a very important 10-year relationship was ending. and i was never happier than when that relationship was thriving.
for me, at least, life is richer shared by two. not everyone feels that way, but when you read your sisters' and brothers' complaints and barbed jokes about their spouses, S/Os, etc., take them with a grain of salt. a bulletin board like this one sometimes serves as a safety valve, and doesn't necessarily characterize a poster's true feelings, or at least the entirety of them.
you may simply be seeing us at our most pissed off, silliest, cantakerous, provocative, or whatever.
yawn. it's late. my train of thought is running out of gas, or steam, or whatever trains run on. but if i sent one message earlier, i hope i'm sending another now: men are not the enemy.
g'night....
judy
Nehallenia
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divemistress:jrdivagrl,
my first response to your post was a little slick, and it may have left a false (bad) impression about men and women, and male-female relationships.
i am happy being single, most of the time.
i was never unhappier than when a very important 10-year relationship was ending. and i was never happier than when that relationship was thriving.
for me, at least, life is richer shared by two. not everyone feels that way, but when you read your sisters' and brothers' complaints and barbed jokes about their spouses, S/Os, etc., take them with a grain of salt. a bulletin board like this one sometimes serves as a safety valve, and doesn't necessarily characterize a poster's true feelings, or at least the entirety of them.
you may simply be seeing us at our most pissed off, silliest, cantakerous, provocative, or whatever.
yawn. it's late. my train of thought is running out of gas, or steam, or whatever trains run on. but if i sent one message earlier, i hope i'm sending another now: men are not the enemy.
g'night....
judy
That was very well said; and you're right it belongs in non-diving related!
capittm
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Not mad at him by any means, but a bit frustrated right now. It's not his fault though. I work 8am-4:30pm. He works 3pm-3am. UGH! Talk about a pain. I never get enough "hubby" time. On my days off all I feel like I can do is clean. blech.. But I can't get comfy and cozy with the hubby knowing I have a million chores to do.
Although diving is our magic time. He's introduced me to whole new world. No matter how busy we are under the water, it's just us. I just need to remember that when we're above water....
Although diving is our magic time. He's introduced me to whole new world. No matter how busy we are under the water, it's just us. I just need to remember that when we're above water....
Sue-ba
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It is not worth it to be mad. They do too many silly things that we could be mad all the time but then we are not hurting anyone but ourselves in the end. Or helping ourselves either.
For me at least, life is too short to waste on being onery and holding grudges. Who needs all that negative energy and does it really do any good anyway?
This is something I have learned the hard way, ...and of course, I am sure I will eat my words next time he does something silly--in about 5 more minutes. Ha ha
For me at least, life is too short to waste on being onery and holding grudges. Who needs all that negative energy and does it really do any good anyway?
This is something I have learned the hard way, ...and of course, I am sure I will eat my words next time he does something silly--in about 5 more minutes. Ha ha
hey capittm, how you feeling? any better?
Sue ba lips, thanks for your comment and I not only agree with it, but also try very hard not to let that negative energy ruin my day.
I would only like to add that our SO, friends, coworkers, whoever.... are not the only ones that do silly or infurating things. We have to remember that we also do lots and lots of things that will qualify as infurating or frustrating to them.
peace
I would only like to add that our SO, friends, coworkers, whoever.... are not the only ones that do silly or infurating things. We have to remember that we also do lots and lots of things that will qualify as infurating or frustrating to them.
peace
capittm
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We didn't do any diving this weekend b/c I was working on Saturday. On Sunday night I came down with a horrible migraine so no diving on Monday either. I feel like I got robbed of my entire weekend with hubbysharkdiver00:
. There's always next weekend, right?