Hi,
Good questions. Don't know about the comparison website. Would be interested in knowing if there is such a site (and who does the comparing!). We are always happy to help and educate based on our experience and variety of BCD options.
The key to lift is not how much you weigh, but what type of equipment you will be carrying. A 30lb wing is usually sufficient for a tall, heavy male with an aluminum single tank and loaded weight pockets. Occasionally, drysuit divers will move up to a 40-45lb lift wing to get extra lift when they are on the surface, loaded with weight, wearing a single steel tank.
If you are looking for a wing that will support double tanks, then it will depend on what size tanks, stage bottles, etc.
If you check out the wings on our website, they each give you a maximum tank size for their lift. For example, our Travel Wing has 30lbs of lift and is best for tanks up to an 80lb aluminum (regardless of diver body size). Our Venture Wing has 45lbs of lift and is best for tanks up to a 95lb steel (meaning you can wear an aluminum 80, steel 80, steel 85 or steel 95).
Hope this helps. If you can give me particulars of what you are looking for (type of diving you do, your typical tank(s), exposure protection, etc.) I can assist.
Best,
Kathleen