I think you are talking about only some parts of Florida. The ROE for panhandle, east coast and Keys are not the same.This is what boat diving in Florida is pretty much like, it's de facto solo diving. Nobody asks me if I have a buddy, nobody asks if I need a buddy. The DM does not dive and it is every man for himself. If I come up 10 min later than everybody else, nobody bothers to ask me why.
Rule #1 of solo diving is you don't talk about solo diving.