An interesting thing happened to me on my recent trip to Bonaire. I organized the trip for 15 people, and the second night, I decided to do a night dive. I was planning on a solo dive, but one of the other divers on the trip decides to buddy up with me, and we leave with three other divers, all from our group. I did a very brief plan with my buddy, and just outline to keep it shallow, and go slow. We get into the water first, and start checking out below the dock. I have a hard time getting his attention to point out the octopus, and Lobster I'm trying to show him. We then start towards the drop off at the same time as the other three from our group. My buddy hurries up to catch up to the other group of three divers. It soon becomes apparent that 1. My buddy is not paying too much attention to me, and instead is diving with the group; 2. The group is diving much deeper than I had intended.
I made a couple attempts to get him to ascend to around 40' before dropping down to 69', touching him on the arm, and giving the ascend signal. At this point, I ascended to about 45', and waited for him, but he continued on with the group, which contained a Divemaster friend of mine. I figured they were safe enough, and went and had a great dive by myself. Nothing bad happened.
After the dive, I had the chance to talk to the other diver, and he didn't realize that I was trying to get him to ascend. He had a hard time telling who I was compared to the other divers, and didn't mean to be so deep, but was just following everyone else.
Part of this was my fault as well for not going into much in terms of reviewing signals with the other diver, since we hadn't dove together before. Anyway, we dove together later on in the week during the day, and didn't have any issues. I think he was just a little uncomfortable with the night dive, and wanted some security in numbers.
Normally, I would not consider myself the type of person who would ever leave his buddy, but given this situation, I think I made the right choice. I had made a lot of dives that day, and did not want to chance a deep night dive. Seeing how responsive he was to me during the first part of the dive told me he was not going to be much help to me if something did indeed happen.
Tom
PS, Not much of a question here, just food for thought....
I made a couple attempts to get him to ascend to around 40' before dropping down to 69', touching him on the arm, and giving the ascend signal. At this point, I ascended to about 45', and waited for him, but he continued on with the group, which contained a Divemaster friend of mine. I figured they were safe enough, and went and had a great dive by myself. Nothing bad happened.
After the dive, I had the chance to talk to the other diver, and he didn't realize that I was trying to get him to ascend. He had a hard time telling who I was compared to the other divers, and didn't mean to be so deep, but was just following everyone else.
Part of this was my fault as well for not going into much in terms of reviewing signals with the other diver, since we hadn't dove together before. Anyway, we dove together later on in the week during the day, and didn't have any issues. I think he was just a little uncomfortable with the night dive, and wanted some security in numbers.
Normally, I would not consider myself the type of person who would ever leave his buddy, but given this situation, I think I made the right choice. I had made a lot of dives that day, and did not want to chance a deep night dive. Seeing how responsive he was to me during the first part of the dive told me he was not going to be much help to me if something did indeed happen.
Tom
PS, Not much of a question here, just food for thought....