I am wondering (and perhaps this is a question for him) if there are breathing exercises to increase lung capacity which may allow me to get past this........
There is a common misconception about the lungs, lung capacity, and breathing. People think breathing is about getting O2 in. Well, of course, but it is mostly about getting CO2 out. For that you need to easily push the air in and out through the 'pipes' (trachea > bronchus > respiratory bronchioles > alveolus. The process of moving air (breathing) has not a whole lot to do with lung volume, which is primarily determined by gender, size, age, and genetics.
There is almost nothing you can do to change your lung volume.There is almost nothing you can do to change your lung flows, except not have asthma (or control your asthma) and not do stupid stuff to damage them like smoke.
The asthma process (inflammation, constriction, and mucus plugging) is about restrictions in the pipes so air does not move well. This is determined by spirometry (breathing tests).
[Note - an X-ray is almost useless].
Scuba makes the air more dense at depth so it also does not move as freely. In addition you are breathing cold air (from the expansion process, and possibly from the environment itself) during exercise which may set off an asthma attack (exercise induced asthma).
I do know that people can dive with asthma, BUT, you have to have a very very good understanding of you own disease process, and have excellent control of it. In your case would also need an damn good physician willing to sign off on it. Your very first sentence tells me you don't have a good understanding of what asthma is, how it works, and maybe how to deal with it.OTOH if you are being honest with your physical capabilities you may be able to learn what you need to know and deal with it properly.
You may want to read this:
Are Asthmatics Fit to Dive?
[Note on lung volume - One great way to increase your lung volume is smoke for 30+ years and get emphysema (COPD) really bad. If these individuals are measured for lung VOLUME it may be well above normal if they fall into the category of barrel chested. But, their lung FLOWS will be
terrible, they can hardly breathe, and their exercise tolerance is awful. These are the people you see using O2 via nasal prongs].
Breathing is very little about lung volume, breathing is all about lung flows.