You know, one thing I left out. You'll never understand why a blind person dives until you dive blind. You won't understand their bravery, their drive or their motivation either. Until you swim a few hundred yards in their fins, you just can't get it. That's true for any issue, medical or psychological. In one of our Diveheart DSD events, I had the great pleasure of taking a guy in the water who lost his legs in a motorcycle accident. It was obvious on the deck, in his wheelchair that he was pissed at the world. To say I was a bit apprehensive at trying to get through to this gentleman is an understatement. As an instructor in the pool, I'm more responsible for his welfare than he is until he gets certified. He wouldn't even let anyone help him in the water. The man needed some FUN. So, once we got the BC on and mask adjusted, I got him to play underwater. Somersaults, barrel rolls, one armed push ups off the bottom... I kept throwing stunt after stunt at him and he loved it. He went from being pissed to being enthused. From being a double amputee to being a Scuba Diver. I kept him in the pool for a long time... they can't tell you his time is up if you don't surface.
But at the end, as we floated on the surface and a huge smile on his face, he looked at me and asked me a question that changed the way I teach adaptive Scuba. He asked what this signal was:
Uh, that's how I dive! It's my signature position in the water. My hands are always together and I swim only with my legs... legs which you don't have... DOH! Sometimes I can be such an idiot!
So now, I only use my hands when I'm teaching a double leg amputee. How else can he imitate me, if I don't constantly demonstrate? As a TABI, we often overlook the obvious for the not so TABI. Find a Diveheart class. Donate your time, your money and most importantly: your emotions. You'll get so much more out of it than you put in that it will make your head spin and your heart grow. I have so many stories of people who have given more to me than I could ever give to them. There is nothing more humbling than to help someone, only to have them give you so much more. But you'll never experience this until you get your hands wet and volunteer.