The only thing that are standard are the size of the slots, they all use 2” webbing, and 11” center holes would be the other thing that would be standard. Other than that nothing is really standard.
Outer shapes can vary, the bend of the plate can vary with how steep or flat they are, some have multiple holes around the perimeter some not so much, some old plates don’t have cam band slots like my OMS for instance and has a 1” slot for the crotch strap (early version).
Cam band slots can vary too, some are elongated some are not, spacing can be all over the place. Companies making plates and wings a lot of times have their own system and their own proprietary measurements to work within their own line of accessories. They don’t care what anybody else is doing because they want to be exclusive so you have to buy their complete product line.
There are many different brand plates and wings that will work with each other, but it can be hit and miss, you have to know which ones.