Anybody else encounter tech arrogance?

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Ojai Diver

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I am advanced open water diver with just over 150 dives, mostly in the Pacific, was certified by NAUI in 1992, and also have a PADI wreck certification. I believe I am a safe and competent diver. In my recent travels, I had the “pleasure” recently of preparing to do a 120 foot non-penetration, non-decompression dive on a Central Coast wreck with a tech trained diver with 200 dives who has been diving for 3 years total. (I refer to him as a "tech diver" as he refers to himself, but I believe he took only one such class.) I will leave out his agency, because that is not really the point.

As I was in the area, we both agreed that doing a practice dive prior to this dive was a good idea. I had envisioned that we would work on our preparation as a team, but boy, was I wrong! His condescension started early and never abated. It was clear he felt that as a tech trained diver, he had everything to tell me, I had nothing to tell him, and all my experience was sh_t.

First he told me (before diving with me) that I should get tech training like him, because his training "allowed him to dive to any depth with confidence." He seemed to believe that this 120 foot nonpenetration dive was solely a "tech dive." In fact, my recreational cert covers dives to 130 feet. My very training included a dive to 127 feet.

For the record, I am not opposed to tech training. I’m sure I could learn or polish many valuable skills from it. However, my commitments as a working father do not currently allow this. And after dealing with this guy, I am now less inclined than ever.

Fast-forward to the practice dive.

He laid down the law.

We would use his signals. We would configure our gear as he did.

We would do a deep stop. When I pointed out that deep stops were at best of questionable value, referred him to a DAN article regarding this, he became absolutely irate, and said that unless I did it his way, he would not be diving with me again.

On the subject of bag shooting, I opined that, if we cannot find the anchor line, we should shoot the bag soon after, because if there was a current (likely) it was better to get the bag up early than wait until we were at safety stop depth. He didn't seem to believe that it was possible to not be able to find the anchor line. (In my Pacific diving experience, this is very possible.) He also stated that any current we could just kick into, and that would suffice to keep us in position. (This is also not my experience.) He seemed to be under the impression that shooting a bag was a distress signal. I got the feeling that he did not wish to look bad in front of his tech friends on the boat. (I sort of felt like his buddying with me as a recreational diver was like being stuck taking the ugly girl to the prom—social status, etc.)

On the subject of gas management, when I mentioned the rule of thirds to him, he did not seem to recognize this, or its value. This was very strange to me. I thought the rule of thirds was common knowledge.

I mention the above points not to assert that my way is the right or only way, but rather to illustrate that he seemed to know only what he was told in class, and nothing else. He did not know why he was told what he was told in class. Nor did he tolerate dissent or other ideas, at least from a mere recreational diver like me.

At this point I decided I would not contest his points, but rather go along, as nobody else I knew was interested in a dive this deep. It was dive with this guy, or don’t do the dive at all. For his part, he felt he was doing me a favor. “Most tech divers will not dive with recreational divers,” he said, smugly.

It is not my intention here to critique his diving abilities, but rather his attitude. My attitude towards a dive like this one is one of respect and the need to discuss and prepare for contingencies--thus my interest in doing a practice dive. But he acted as though he knew it all already. His dogmatic adherence to his training, his complete faith in it, his evident contempt for all recreational training, and his arrogance, were all breathtaking (and insufferable.)

I will submit that some of the most accomplished divers, including many on this board, to my knowledge never had any technical training, including for dives far deeper than this one.

Ultimately, because I got a cold, we never did this dive. In our last phone conversation, he told me (for the fourth time) that I should get tech training, and also insinuated that I was an unsafe diver and a bad father if –gasp--I continued to dive without it.

Needless to say I will not be diving with this guy again. This experience has really left a bad taste in my mouth. I mean, once safety standards are met, if we are not diving for fun, what’s the point?

For the record, I am not saying that all or even most tech divers are like this guy. But the whole experience left me wondering just how widespread his kind of "tech arrogance" is, whether this is taught in tech classes, or just acquired naturally, and also made me wonder, if unchecked, how dangerous it could be. Pride goeth before a downfall, etc.

Has anybody else encountered this?
 
Sounds like an idiot. Dive with other people. They're out there, sometimes you've just gotta look for them.

Technical diving attracts a lot of type A personalities. Sounds to me like this guy is probably a jerk in other aspects of his life.

For me, diving with recreational divers has me a little more on edge because they're generally less predictable. To me it sort of owes to the pretty wide range of possible levels of competency that are instilled in recreational training. That absolutely doesn't mean than technical divers will always do the right thing in response to a situation, but in theory at least, I should be able to rely on a technical diver to do what they're supposed to do. It doesn't mean I won't dive with recreational divers, it just means that I'm a little more wary for the first couple dives with new buddies, takes me a little longer to get comfortable with them. I've also been in situations where I will not dive with some technical divers because they're obviously poor divers and potentially dangerous.

I don't like to preach the gospel of technical diving to random people, but theoretically at least, solid technical training will improve even basic dive skills. Does that happen all the time? No, as evidenced by said technical divers who are off my buddy list, but the theory is there.....

I think there's definitely a difference in being confident in ones competence, and arrogance. This dude definitely sounds arrogant.
 
Can't say that's ever happened to me - my dive buddy is only ever my wife so it;s pretty easy situation to avoid.

Were I in that position however, I'd have never fast fwd'ed to the practice dive. I probably would have gone home shortly after the condescension started
 
For the record, I am not saying that all or even most tech divers are like this guy. But the whole experience left me wondering just how widespread his kind of "tech arrogance" is, whether this is taught in tech classes, or just acquired naturally, and also made me wonder, if unchecked, how dangerous it could be. Pride goeth before a downfall, etc.

Has anybody else encountered this?

I think you have the right attitude when saying "I won't dive with that guy again." There's arrogance and gate-keeping in every hobby. I mean, everybody knows that one guy in men's league pickup basketball who takes it way too seriously.

Nobody likes that guy.

I had a roommate in college who insisted I wasn't a real gamer because I played Madden and Call of Duty on an XBox, as opposed to a PC. He would never come of it, despite my complete lack of desire to buy a gaming computer. I never called myself a "gamer," I just liked playing games on the weekend when I didn't have anything better to do.

I think the tech arrogance you mention is just as prevelant as in any other hobby, and those people like the guy you mention just kinda suck sometimes .
 
Buddies like this are why solo diving was invented. If you had made the dive with him you would have probably been scolded about your trim or any other excuse he would come up with.
 
Has anybody else encountered this?
A-holes are found all over. So, yes, I've met divers who are a-holes. Maybe an improportional amount of those were tech divers, maybe not. I haven't bothered to keep count; I have more important stuff to care about. Like what kind of beer I'm going to enjoy when I'm done diving for the day.

Find someone else to dive with. Life is too short to deal with a-holes.
 
I have had the privilege of diving with several local technical divers on recreational. Most (if not all) are also recreational instructors. Some have been my instructors at one point or another, and I have also been diving with each of them recreationally as well on various dive trips.

Thankfully, none showed the kind of behaviour that you unfortunately experienced. I would dive with any of them again, at any time, within my limits.
 
To echo what the others have said, I suspect that guy had that sort of attitude before he ever took his tech diving course.

Speaking as someone who has chosen to take it slow on a very long road toward learning tech diving, and who on that journey has been meeting lots of tech divers, I would say this guy's attitude is not any more (okay, not MUCH more) "widespread" among tech divers than it is among the general diving population. If this is your first brush with someone like this in the diving world--you say you have been diving since 1992--then that's not such a bad record.

As for the guy's "dogmatic adherence to his training," for all we know he wasn't following what was taught in his class, or he was trying to extrapolate something that was taught to a situation it was never intended for, or who knows.

Fortunately for me, the tech divers I have met have been enthusiastic and helpful, never condescending.
 
In my recent travels, I had the “pleasure” recently of preparing to do a 120 foot non-penetration, non-decompression dive on a Central Coast wreck with a tech trained diver with 200 dives who has been diving for 3 years total.
200 dives over 3 years is NOT a lot for a tech diver. I'd definitely feel like the new guy around tec divers with such a short amount of experience. Arrogance is most often used to compensate for the lack of confidence. The most accomplished tec divers I know rarely mention the extent of training and experience they had; if you're confident, you don't need to establish yourself.

That said, a 120 ft dive is within that range where it can be done as a really short rec dive somewhat on the edge or a longer easy tec dive. He could have been disappointed that others were going to have a lot more time on the bottom.


I will submit that some of the most accomplished divers, including many on this board, to my knowledge never had any technical training, including for dives far deeper than this one.
And just as many have paid for it with their lives. The best divers that did high-risk tec dives without any prior technical training are the ones that created technical training.

It's seriously important and you shouldn't dismiss it because of one bad experience. You can have unpleasant interactions for people from all walks of life; being a kind, gentle and humble person isn't a formal prerequisite for tec training.


Humility is a de-facto prerequisite for it, though - and some instructors solve the problem drill sergeant style, hammering into the student just what a nothing they are without their class. I haven't met your guy, that's why I'm not saying if he's a jerk or not, no way for me to know.

But I'd also allow for the possibility that he'd been impressed a lot of things on in his tec class, including how deficient everything he's done to that point had been, and felt necessary to pass that imprinted message along. It's how our brains work, pain helps training go deeper and last longer, but also reduces critical processing, making one overestimate the importance and validity of the training received that way. Or he could just be a jerk, of course.
 
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