So after 3 years of watching my son and husband dive I finally decide to get below the surface myself, despite problematic ears. On a trip to Central America my 11 yo daughter and I sign up for an intro. at a small eco-resort. After an hour in the pool and a quick 20-ft. dive in the bay in front of the resort we're ready to go out to a reef 15 minutes from shore. My son and husband decide to accompany us, in part to make sure we have more than 1 experienced diver for 2 newbies. As we're loading the boat another guest approaches the resort owner, who okays him to go out with us.
The new plan is that daughter will buddy with instructor, I'll be with husband, new guy will be with 13 yo son. We'll stay in a tight cluster, and go down and come up together. On the way out, ever the protective mom, I question the new guy. He says he certified in the military and has dived consistently since. No problem.
We get to the site, all get in okay and start down slowly. I'm having a little trouble equalizing, so I'm concentrating on my ears when I realize my son is signaling me that he needs to surface. I look for his buddy (new guy) and see his fins disappearing toward the reef. Husband signals me to stay put and goes up with son who turns out to have a mask full of blood due to a massive nosebleed. Son heads back to the boat.
Meanwhile, instructor is getting nervous about new guy. He's rushing new-diver daughter, who's also having problems equalizing, to get down quickly, so they can catch up with him. The result is that she ends up in pain and has to go back to the boat.
Instructor rejoins us and we get to the reef and find new guy happily toodling around on his own. We proceed to have a very nice dive (43 ft., 56 min. BT, lots to see) and head back to the boat safely.
On the positive side, no one got hurt. On the negative, daughter was convinced she can't equalize despite doing well on the earlier shallow dive. What bothers me most about new-guy-jerk's selfish behavior is that he had absolutely no clue what was happening with his buddy, my son. For all he knew son was in the midst of a major emergency. Didn't even ask or indicate any curiosity until back on the boat an hour after being separated from him.
Lessons?
To quote leabre, * It is not enough to know how many dives your buddy has, and how recent his diving experience is, it is more important to determine somehow whether you can trust him and whether you will be comfortable with this person under water.
Other lessons? You tell me. I'm the newbie!
The new plan is that daughter will buddy with instructor, I'll be with husband, new guy will be with 13 yo son. We'll stay in a tight cluster, and go down and come up together. On the way out, ever the protective mom, I question the new guy. He says he certified in the military and has dived consistently since. No problem.
We get to the site, all get in okay and start down slowly. I'm having a little trouble equalizing, so I'm concentrating on my ears when I realize my son is signaling me that he needs to surface. I look for his buddy (new guy) and see his fins disappearing toward the reef. Husband signals me to stay put and goes up with son who turns out to have a mask full of blood due to a massive nosebleed. Son heads back to the boat.
Meanwhile, instructor is getting nervous about new guy. He's rushing new-diver daughter, who's also having problems equalizing, to get down quickly, so they can catch up with him. The result is that she ends up in pain and has to go back to the boat.
Instructor rejoins us and we get to the reef and find new guy happily toodling around on his own. We proceed to have a very nice dive (43 ft., 56 min. BT, lots to see) and head back to the boat safely.
On the positive side, no one got hurt. On the negative, daughter was convinced she can't equalize despite doing well on the earlier shallow dive. What bothers me most about new-guy-jerk's selfish behavior is that he had absolutely no clue what was happening with his buddy, my son. For all he knew son was in the midst of a major emergency. Didn't even ask or indicate any curiosity until back on the boat an hour after being separated from him.
Lessons?
To quote leabre, * It is not enough to know how many dives your buddy has, and how recent his diving experience is, it is more important to determine somehow whether you can trust him and whether you will be comfortable with this person under water.
Other lessons? You tell me. I'm the newbie!