I'll put it this way: from the time they first certified I felt extremely comfortable diving with my 2 kids. At 11 my son was not physically strong enough to "rescue my a**" in a really serious situation, that is true, but he was well trained, observant and careful. He and his older sister let me have it with both barrels if they saw me cutting any corners, and other older divers who have since had the chance to dive with them have confirmed my opinion of the kids safety and abilities. They never did anything to endanger themselves or others, and even at a young age they showed that they were observant of the actions of another diver and could be of assistance if someone needed even if they could not "rescue" a truely distressed diver.
I spent quite a bit of time looking for the right people to train my kids. I willingly drove three hours each way for every lesson, because I felt that it was not just a case of my kids becoming certified; they were being introduced to a sport that demanded their complete dedication because that sport is inherently dangerous if done without a real understanding of the possible hazards.
Now compare this with my 50+ gf. She is much more mature, sure, and much stronger than my son was at 11, but she will never be half the diver my 2 teenagers were from day one, and there is no way she could be my "savior" if things went south. That's a fact. Sometimes when I'm diving with "grownups" I find that I am completely responsible for the safety of both divers.
Ultimately it is myself and only myself that is responsible for my safety diving, and at all times I have to be ready and able to get myself out of any situation, without being dependant on the actions of whatever diver I may be "buddied" with at the time!!!!!
It is the person; that person's sense of responsibility to the safety of themselves and others, the ability to learn and comprehend lessons, and the willingness to really listen to an instructor that makes someone a good candidate for learning to scuba dive, not their calendar age.
Of course all this is just my personal opinion
I spent quite a bit of time looking for the right people to train my kids. I willingly drove three hours each way for every lesson, because I felt that it was not just a case of my kids becoming certified; they were being introduced to a sport that demanded their complete dedication because that sport is inherently dangerous if done without a real understanding of the possible hazards.
Now compare this with my 50+ gf. She is much more mature, sure, and much stronger than my son was at 11, but she will never be half the diver my 2 teenagers were from day one, and there is no way she could be my "savior" if things went south. That's a fact. Sometimes when I'm diving with "grownups" I find that I am completely responsible for the safety of both divers.
Ultimately it is myself and only myself that is responsible for my safety diving, and at all times I have to be ready and able to get myself out of any situation, without being dependant on the actions of whatever diver I may be "buddied" with at the time!!!!!
It is the person; that person's sense of responsibility to the safety of themselves and others, the ability to learn and comprehend lessons, and the willingness to really listen to an instructor that makes someone a good candidate for learning to scuba dive, not their calendar age.
Of course all this is just my personal opinion