Hi...
I'm a fresh diver. Got my PADI OWD in the beginning of august this year. This happened on my 15th dive. My previous dives had been my OWD dives (6, pr Norwegian regulations), then 3 dives out of course setting, but two of them were with the instructor I had on 4 of my OWdives (Which is also D2 in this story). On two of these three dives I experienced some problems with too little weights. THen followed 5 dives within the AOWD package. (Night, Nav, PPB, Deep and Wreck)
So... to the incident in question.
Gear: Bare Neoprene Drysuit (Rental), Oceanic regs and 1stage, 300Bar 10L steel tank, hood, gloves, zeagle tech bcd.
Location: "Muren" in the Oslofjord, Norway

"Muren" or, "The Wall" is a constructed wall in the oslofjord made to ensure that large ships would need to pass the Oscarsborg Fortress to get to Oslo. This wall is one of the reasons why the German cruiser Blücher were sunk in the beginning of WW2.
In the picture it looks like an inverted L of shallow water. On the bottom part there is a short stretch in the wall with deeper water to allow for sailboats and boats that go deeper than 5m to pass. Due to currents, divers need to go deeper than 12m to pass to avoid being taken to the other side of the wall.
(Now.. this is what I wish I HAD been told)
This day we were three people going diving. Me(14 dives in total), D2 (Who had been my instructor for the last half of my OWD) and D3 who was a Divemaster. (In other words, I was feeling pretty safe)
While we are doing our preparations on shore, I ask them to show and tell about the divesite, seeing as I've never been there. The way they describe the wall, I envision it going in a straight line from "where the shore meets the L" up to the fortress. (Island up north) I the ask them if there are any special conditions I need to be aware of. We talk a little about current, but I was never told that because of currents, and the opening for boats, divers need to be at "point zero" before ascending.
We agree on divetime of max 60min, to let everyone know when at halv tank, and 50Bar left when surfaced. (300bar 10L steel tank) (Sorry for using european denominations. I don't know the equivalent american) So far, so good.
We get in the water. Good weighting. Have Superb (as good as a newbie can at least) buoyancy. Calm breathing. Really enjoying the dive.
Here is where I start to err. I assumed I could trust the instructor to do the navigation, as I had never been there before. I know from earlier dives that I spend a lot of air getting submerged, and then my airconsumption is reasonably low, so turning back at half tank has usually gotten me back up at 50Bar.
Anyways, happily diving along I signal my buddies that I am at half tank. I get the ok sign back, and we continue. Hmm.. Ok... I'm not familiar, so I follow. I Then signal at 120, and at 100, and at 70. My buddy (Who was not working as an instructor at the time.. this was a fun dive) then turns around. I get to 60 bar, and signal that I want to go up for the safetystop. We are now at 55 minutes. I get confused when buddy signals a BIG NO!!. We then ascend to 5m and swim along. Ok.. My thought is that we are now doing the safetystop while swimming. Fair enough. When my 3min were done, I signal once again that I want to ascend. Once again he signals no, and to continue swimming. This repeats every 10 bar untill 20 bars. I really start getting worried, and when he signals to descend, I'm very confused at what to do. Eventually I chose do descend because I can feel the current. We stay really close to each other, and at 10 bar and 15m, I stop. He prepares his octo and with a couple of calming breaths before the change, I change from my reg, to his octo just a couple of breaths short of me being empty. (I was at 50bar at 60 min, when we should have been topside)
I feel really embarrased, and not just a little bit angry. I am usually a person who believe in safetyrules, and that adhering to standards saves lives. (I'm a nurse, and I work in a prehospital setting). However, I also obviously had a problem switching from the mental opinion of D2 as my instructor to him just being a buddy.
My problem with this dive came mostly with what he said after the dive. He said he consciously swam further to teach me a lesson to always remember that you not only need to inform of your air left, but also that you want to turn around. Unfortunately, after this experience, not only have I learnt that I'm the boss of my dive, but also that I will never trust a buddy again. I am quite certain I would have gotten the point if we returned with 30 bar left when on top, and I am a little bitt baffled that he would consciously take the risk of me going out of air and the potential risk of panic, when the simple remedy was to turn around. (Now, I do fully understand his point, and lesson is absolutely learned...)
Now... My lessons...
Take responsibility
Be absolutely sure you know the divesite (Or be very clear on who is navigating)
Trust own instincts
I do not panic very easily
I DO have a good grasp on my airconsumption, and the annoying part was that I knew for quite some time I would be OOA
So... Am I right to be embarrased... Or can I pin at least a little bit of this faux pas on my buddy... considering they never told me I need to be back at point zero before I could ascend?
I'm sorry for the rambling, but this is really bothering me.
I've had about 20 dives so far after this. Some good. Some with challenges (buoyancy and stuff) but nothing like this.
Hope someone can help me work this out.
Oh... and I am never going OOA again!
I'm a fresh diver. Got my PADI OWD in the beginning of august this year. This happened on my 15th dive. My previous dives had been my OWD dives (6, pr Norwegian regulations), then 3 dives out of course setting, but two of them were with the instructor I had on 4 of my OWdives (Which is also D2 in this story). On two of these three dives I experienced some problems with too little weights. THen followed 5 dives within the AOWD package. (Night, Nav, PPB, Deep and Wreck)
So... to the incident in question.
Gear: Bare Neoprene Drysuit (Rental), Oceanic regs and 1stage, 300Bar 10L steel tank, hood, gloves, zeagle tech bcd.
Location: "Muren" in the Oslofjord, Norway

"Muren" or, "The Wall" is a constructed wall in the oslofjord made to ensure that large ships would need to pass the Oscarsborg Fortress to get to Oslo. This wall is one of the reasons why the German cruiser Blücher were sunk in the beginning of WW2.
In the picture it looks like an inverted L of shallow water. On the bottom part there is a short stretch in the wall with deeper water to allow for sailboats and boats that go deeper than 5m to pass. Due to currents, divers need to go deeper than 12m to pass to avoid being taken to the other side of the wall.
(Now.. this is what I wish I HAD been told)
This day we were three people going diving. Me(14 dives in total), D2 (Who had been my instructor for the last half of my OWD) and D3 who was a Divemaster. (In other words, I was feeling pretty safe)
While we are doing our preparations on shore, I ask them to show and tell about the divesite, seeing as I've never been there. The way they describe the wall, I envision it going in a straight line from "where the shore meets the L" up to the fortress. (Island up north) I the ask them if there are any special conditions I need to be aware of. We talk a little about current, but I was never told that because of currents, and the opening for boats, divers need to be at "point zero" before ascending.
We agree on divetime of max 60min, to let everyone know when at halv tank, and 50Bar left when surfaced. (300bar 10L steel tank) (Sorry for using european denominations. I don't know the equivalent american) So far, so good.
We get in the water. Good weighting. Have Superb (as good as a newbie can at least) buoyancy. Calm breathing. Really enjoying the dive.
Here is where I start to err. I assumed I could trust the instructor to do the navigation, as I had never been there before. I know from earlier dives that I spend a lot of air getting submerged, and then my airconsumption is reasonably low, so turning back at half tank has usually gotten me back up at 50Bar.
Anyways, happily diving along I signal my buddies that I am at half tank. I get the ok sign back, and we continue. Hmm.. Ok... I'm not familiar, so I follow. I Then signal at 120, and at 100, and at 70. My buddy (Who was not working as an instructor at the time.. this was a fun dive) then turns around. I get to 60 bar, and signal that I want to go up for the safetystop. We are now at 55 minutes. I get confused when buddy signals a BIG NO!!. We then ascend to 5m and swim along. Ok.. My thought is that we are now doing the safetystop while swimming. Fair enough. When my 3min were done, I signal once again that I want to ascend. Once again he signals no, and to continue swimming. This repeats every 10 bar untill 20 bars. I really start getting worried, and when he signals to descend, I'm very confused at what to do. Eventually I chose do descend because I can feel the current. We stay really close to each other, and at 10 bar and 15m, I stop. He prepares his octo and with a couple of calming breaths before the change, I change from my reg, to his octo just a couple of breaths short of me being empty. (I was at 50bar at 60 min, when we should have been topside)
I feel really embarrased, and not just a little bit angry. I am usually a person who believe in safetyrules, and that adhering to standards saves lives. (I'm a nurse, and I work in a prehospital setting). However, I also obviously had a problem switching from the mental opinion of D2 as my instructor to him just being a buddy.
My problem with this dive came mostly with what he said after the dive. He said he consciously swam further to teach me a lesson to always remember that you not only need to inform of your air left, but also that you want to turn around. Unfortunately, after this experience, not only have I learnt that I'm the boss of my dive, but also that I will never trust a buddy again. I am quite certain I would have gotten the point if we returned with 30 bar left when on top, and I am a little bitt baffled that he would consciously take the risk of me going out of air and the potential risk of panic, when the simple remedy was to turn around. (Now, I do fully understand his point, and lesson is absolutely learned...)
Now... My lessons...
Take responsibility
Be absolutely sure you know the divesite (Or be very clear on who is navigating)
Trust own instincts
I do not panic very easily

I DO have a good grasp on my airconsumption, and the annoying part was that I knew for quite some time I would be OOA
So... Am I right to be embarrased... Or can I pin at least a little bit of this faux pas on my buddy... considering they never told me I need to be back at point zero before I could ascend?
I'm sorry for the rambling, but this is really bothering me.
I've had about 20 dives so far after this. Some good. Some with challenges (buoyancy and stuff) but nothing like this.
Hope someone can help me work this out.
Oh... and I am never going OOA again!