You dive solo a lot, don't you...
Peace,
Greg
Yes, I have done a lot of solo diving. It's actually pretty relaxing and peaceful. I have also known a few divers who, like me, did not drink or use drugs. My best friend, Fuzz, was one of them. I knew I could trust him when we were diving together. I miss him. He gave his life trying to help another person.
Last summer, I met a man and his wife (both of them divers) who do not drink or use illicit drugs. My oldest son was certified last year and my youngest son will be certified this year. I'll be diving with them this year.
It isn't just in the realm of diving that I shy away from people who drink. Beyond the acquaintance level, I have never been one to associate with people who drink or use drugs. Being around people who are drunk or stoned makes me uncomfortable.
Now don't get me wrong. I don't act all anti-social with people that I know are drinkers and I'm not one of those people who climb on a soap box and lecture about the evils of Demon Rum. I just quietly keep a little distance. If find myself diving with people who are drinkers, I go into the water with the knowledge that I am on my own if anything goes wrong. In such a case, regardless of how many people are diving around me, in my mind, I am diving solo. I don't make an issue of it and the others aren't aware of it. I will try to help one of them if he or she appears to be in trouble, but I dive as if I am my only help.
The knowledge that a potential dive buddy uses mind-altering substances undermines my confidence in them as a dive buddy. I may dive with them, but not as a dive buddy, per se.
I am not trying to offend anyone here, it's just that I have seen what alcohol and drugs do to people and I want no part of it.