ScubaSteve
Wow.....what a DB
I'll take a stab at that.
** this is a general statement, not referencing the posts in question because I didnt see them **
It likely comes down to a time issue. When things start to escalate, staff sees the need to cut it off as quickly as possible. The first Mod to respond may not have time to use surgical precision to trim all the posts, so an axe is used instead. In some instances, the mere disappearance of a post may serve as sufficient warning to someone that they're crossing a line. Others need to be beat over the head with the fact.
I agree that it comes down to time but again, especially in this case, if mine was not the true "offender", then how does not telling me help the situation? I come in and see that all of my posts are gone (save one only) yet other blatant TOS violations remain. If I had received an email saying these posts were deleted because they were part of a chain which got reported, then things MIGHT have ended differently.
Since I'm unfamilair with all the intricacies of the VB software I don't know if this is a viable idea but I have one suggestion. Is it possible to set up an automatic notification system so that when a Mod selects a post to be deleted that it sends a PM to the poster saying "Your post has been deleted by Moderator XXXX?" Perhaps with a box for additional comments?
Then if the poster wants clarification, they know which mod to PM?
Maybe a good idea. However, I come back to a person should be told they are doing something wrong if they are in fact doing something wrong. Some people may not think they are (as in my case here).