Reg Braithwaite
Contributor
You could just not answer
That's the most insightful meta-comment on the thread, IMO. Not to rag on people who answered in whatever way thy felt appropriate, but it's good to be reminded that when we see a question or a statement we find repellant/repugnant, it's always our option to ignore it.
p.s. SB also helpfully provides an ignore this thread feature and an ignore this user feature (a/k/a "Plonk") if you find your fingers drifting towards he "flame" button on the keyboard.