I'm floored. I knew that by scuba diving I was putting MY life in danger by My own hand. I never realized that you (instructors) would put your life on the line for me. That kind of scares me and it makes me want to train? and practice so that I NEVER put someone else in that position. I truthfully don't know what I would do in that situation I stated above. With my current training, I know I would attempt to slow them down. but if i knew it wasn't working would I stop and let them go? I don't know. I know my own limitations and right now I hope I am not expected to put my life on the line for someone else. As I gain more experience and confidence I would think I'd be more willing to put myself out there. I truly have so much respect and appreciation for all of you. Thank You! Wow, I have really learned alot these past few days!
Jeanne, you are NOT "putting your life in danger" IF (1) you had a great instructor, and (2) you do everything correctly that you were taught.
Start with evaluating yourself, and determining what you know you can do.
Next, make sure you have a buddy who is equal to you, at least, or a D/M or and instructor him/her-self.
Then pick an appropriate dive site. If on a boat, listen to the briefing and ask questions before you determine if this dive and site is ok for you.
If on a beach, evaluate the conditions yourself. I look at the water, the waves, the wind, the current, the kelp, the cove, the rocks, the beach, the sand, the sky, the clouds, and the horizon.
Next, plan your dive, set your maximum depth, your maximum dive time, your turn-around SPG pressure, decide whether you or your buddy will lead and the other follow, and then stick to your plan while diving it.
Clear your ears, control your descent, stick near your buddy, make sure you can both see each other, keep your buoyancy neutral, monitor your SPG and your buddy's SPG, relax, and enjoy the view. It is like watching Jacques Cousteau on TV, except that now you are actually IN THE SCENE, not just watching it.
Signal your buddy to turn around when it is time to turn around, control your ascent, stop half-way up for about 1 min, then slowly from there until you get to 15 fsw/ffw, and wait 3 to 5 mins.
If you ever have a problem, then stop, relax and breathe, think, and act to resolve it, or ask your buddy to help you, or both.
The whole time, you should be having fun, not "putting your life in danger."