Some of you will remember me posting about my experience with a flooded mask that wouldn't clear, and the near-panic that resulted. The same thing happened to one of my dive buddies yesterday, and he did the same thing I did: He didn't signal us to let us know he had a problem. He kept trying to solve it by himself until he wasn't rational any more.
Given that we are all going to encounter issues from time to time, whether it's a twisted light cord, a flooding mask, a harness that's come loose, or whatever, it doesn't make sense to signal one's buddies every single time something isn't quite right. (Crying wolf comes to mind, not to mention that eventually, nobody would want to dive with me if I did that!) We can solve many problems by ourselves with little disturbance of the dive. But sometimes your buddy can solve it more EASILY than you can (my issue with the light cord being wrapped around something was an example of that), and sometimes the problem is going to escalate, and your buddy can keep that from happening (like the panic of being unable to see and disoriented). However, when you're rattled, one of the first things that happens is self-absorption and perceptual narrowing, and it seems as though it's easy to forget that help is at hand.
So the question is: How do you decide which problems should be signalled to your buddies? How do you recognize that you're getting too anxious to handle something by yourself?
Given that we are all going to encounter issues from time to time, whether it's a twisted light cord, a flooding mask, a harness that's come loose, or whatever, it doesn't make sense to signal one's buddies every single time something isn't quite right. (Crying wolf comes to mind, not to mention that eventually, nobody would want to dive with me if I did that!) We can solve many problems by ourselves with little disturbance of the dive. But sometimes your buddy can solve it more EASILY than you can (my issue with the light cord being wrapped around something was an example of that), and sometimes the problem is going to escalate, and your buddy can keep that from happening (like the panic of being unable to see and disoriented). However, when you're rattled, one of the first things that happens is self-absorption and perceptual narrowing, and it seems as though it's easy to forget that help is at hand.
So the question is: How do you decide which problems should be signalled to your buddies? How do you recognize that you're getting too anxious to handle something by yourself?