So today I accept The Borg Queen's invitation to do a skills dive with her buddy (both just finished Rec-Triox) and a Tech 1 diver friend. The Tech 1 diver is designated as my buddy while TBQ and her buddy make the 2nd team. The plan is to swim out, do a coordinated descent, then ascent, then descent -- then the fun is supposed to begin with valve drills, bag shoots and who knows what else. (I thought I was going to get some sight-seeing in -- was I ever wrong!)
Anyway, after doing the valve drills my buddy (who has sort of become the master leader) decides we need to do another team ascent -- so up we go. On the way from 30' to 20' I see The Borg Queen (aka my wife) seemingly start for the surface and just as she gets out of my view my buddy throws an OOA at HER buddy -- who smartly donates his reg and gets ready to do the air sharing ascent with my buddy. I'm hanging there looking at the two of them and periodically looking around trying to see TBQ and thinking, "Hmmm, MY buddy is pre-occupied with her buddy, I'm watching my buddy but she IS my wife -- what's happened to her?" A minute or two later I see her light coming down to the 15' level where we are now hanging.
In the debrief it is clear TBQ's buddy never saw her leave -- I didn't have a chance to talk with my buddy what he wanted me to do (if anything).
So, great ScubaBoard BORG, what SHOULD I have done in this situation? Should I have done what I did (stay with my buddy) OR should I have followed TBQ up to the surface and abandoned my buddy? (BTW, she left BEFORE the OOA drill.)
What say y'all?
(Note -- as it turned out her ascent was NOT deliberate -- she was trying something out and lost control and corked.)
Anyway, after doing the valve drills my buddy (who has sort of become the master leader) decides we need to do another team ascent -- so up we go. On the way from 30' to 20' I see The Borg Queen (aka my wife) seemingly start for the surface and just as she gets out of my view my buddy throws an OOA at HER buddy -- who smartly donates his reg and gets ready to do the air sharing ascent with my buddy. I'm hanging there looking at the two of them and periodically looking around trying to see TBQ and thinking, "Hmmm, MY buddy is pre-occupied with her buddy, I'm watching my buddy but she IS my wife -- what's happened to her?" A minute or two later I see her light coming down to the 15' level where we are now hanging.
In the debrief it is clear TBQ's buddy never saw her leave -- I didn't have a chance to talk with my buddy what he wanted me to do (if anything).
So, great ScubaBoard BORG, what SHOULD I have done in this situation? Should I have done what I did (stay with my buddy) OR should I have followed TBQ up to the surface and abandoned my buddy? (BTW, she left BEFORE the OOA drill.)
What say y'all?
(Note -- as it turned out her ascent was NOT deliberate -- she was trying something out and lost control and corked.)