I had the same coupler on my trailer up until a couple years ago. Not having a mechanical lockout was an issue on a couple occasions. When my mechanic tried to move the trailer with a forklift, it didn’t work very well. Only had an issue with my truck on a couple occasions.
First time it happened, I pulled off the 5 pin connector and replaced with a 7 pin. That eliminated the adapter. When it happened again, I noticed corrosion inside the 7 pin. So, I got a new one, and this time, after making the connections, I filled the back side of the 7 pin with dielectric grease. No issues after that.
I’ve since swapped that coupler for a non-surge coupler since I switched to a Hydrastar EOH unit that works with my trailer brake controller. Huge improvement in ride.