ttl is through the lens light sensing. The camera determines the flash strength needed based on the available light to the sensor and sends a signal to the flash based on that. The strobe automatically fires at that level, supposedly giving perfect light required for the aperture and shutter speed and the ambient light.
It is doubtful you'll find a used housing for this camera as the camera has only been on the market about 6 months, but there are plenty of used strobes on ebay. Just make sure the strobe is the right type for the system you plan to use, as even in a particular brand and basic model of strobe there might be three versions based on the type of signal the strobe will receive to fire it, or if it is designed for single or dual strobe systems. For posts on what people are using with this camera, there is an extensive SP-350 thread based on the experiences of several users. If you are planning on using an Ikelite housing and strobe, I would suggest checking their website and contacting them for more info.
The camera does very nice macros, and any camera is limited in the distance you can take pictures from underwater because of available light. Generally the strobe will light about 5-7 feet, and the light will diminish with distance. Using a wide angle lens allows getting a larger subject into the picture from the required close distance. A macro lens will allow a larger, more detailed picture of a very small subject without being 1/4" away where light availability and focus might be difficult at best. You can get very nice pictures without either if you practice, but they will be limited to what fits in your picture at the distance you shoot it, and how close you can get to the subject.