thanks alot for the advice, we will defiantly spend a few nights in bangkok as we arrive and leave from there. my "wifey" loves to just relax and lay in the sun on the sandy beaches the quieter the better, we are both young but quiet people, and like goo,d food. also we do not like to run around to much but prefer to been log in one place and get to know it a bit we were planning to visit 2 beaches max 3. but we are both not into the tourist beaten path. any more suggestions welcome thanks