gr8ful divr:
Honestly I think that all of the high end regs are very good. So the two main things to consider from what I have been told are how standard the parts are and how easy everything is to work on.
That's pretty much it in a nutshell. Any of the higher end Scubapro or Apeks regs will be sufficient. I am somewhat partial to Scubapro because I think they provide better hose routing options for doubles. I also like the turrets for stage regs, since it makes air sharing a little easier. Some people view the turret as a potential failure point, but in over 10 years of using Scubapro regs (Mk10/15/20), I have never seen any problem with the turrets failing. The Apeks are preferred by some due to the environmental seal, so if that is an issue for you, then I would go with the Apeks.
For the most part it's a "Ford vs Chevy" argument, and I don't think you can go wrong with either brand. I think what it boils down to is what's available for purchase in your area, and what local shop gives you the best value for your money.
I was told that my Atomic regs (though superb regs) are more difficult to work on and do not have standard parts that are readily available.
The biggest problem with the Atomics is the second stages, which require a tool to service. The outer cover can be removed by hand, but there is an inner retaining ring that screws in, and must be removed with a tool to get access to the diaphragm. Also, the newer Atomics I have seen have some kind of funky "swivel" thing at the second stage hose fitting, which could be a problem as far as attaching non-Atomic hoses. Older Atomics don't have this "feature" and I don't really understand why they changed the design, but that's what they're doing now.
Any reg that forces you into a "single source" situation for hoses and fittings is going to be a bad choice in the long run - this is true whether you are DIR or not (and also applies to other industries besides SCUBA
). It's always best to stick with equipment that interchanges and can be serviced with industry standard parts.