TJ, as a layman I can only concur with blackwater. Yours appears to have been a severe case of neurological DCS and I honestly don't think
anybody, including experienced hyperbaric doctors, can give you any firm advice. If pressed, I'd venture that they'd ground you ...
You must understand that you
might have another hit and you
might die or get paralyzed for life from it. Or you may have no further incidence of DCI for the rest of your diving career and no further problems. Only
you can make this decision, and only
you are responsible for your well-being.
That said, there are some thoughts that spring to mind ...
Mabe I am a nitrox candidate.
Absolutely! Anything you can do to decrease inert gas loading is good. Then again, it's no catch-all against contracting DCI again.
If it were me experiencing neurological DCS, not being able to urinate properly and perhaps experiencing sexual dysfunction, I would take a long and hard think about diving again. If I - personally - decided it was worth the risk for me to continue diving, I'd do a proper accident analysis. How did your dive go wrong? What did you do wrong? What could have been done differently, by you or by your support? I'd get any which training which would decrease the risk (e.g. O2 provider, update my MFA/EFR/other primary care), read up on decompression illness and on decompression theory and go for ultra-safe diving with overlong safety stops and nice multi-level profiles. But that's just me.