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DiverRider

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Hamburg, PA USA
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I recently was in Bonaire to spend a week of vacation. While there I found the diving to be excellent. I had a variety of dive partners while there as I had traveled by myself. I'm accustomed to this as I like traveling and can't always find a dive buddy with the same schedule.
I learned a valuable lesson while there. Take time to ask a new dive buddy about his/her diving skills.
I was on my 10th dive. I was paired with a man from Europe. Nationality isn't important but he spoke very good English. I noticed he had a video cam with him and assumed he was a seasoned diver. I was very wrong. We got in the water and I was ready after getting my camera from the boat crew. He acquired his video camera and I waited for him to descend. I was given to OK signal from him for this. I waited several minutes at 3 meters only to find he didn't have enough weight for the dive with his camera. The divemaster retrieved a couple of pounds of weight and the he attempted several times to descend. Again he had trouble, but it was valid trouble, his ears wouldn't clear. So finally he was able to descend, and the dive plan was to follow the reef line straight until we had to surface. The boat would pick each set of divers up. As we started out he was videoing immediately and I was somewhat distracted by his not taking the time to check everything out as one usually does when reaching desired depth. This was just and observation at the time and I really didn't read into it.
We proceed down the reef and suddenly he pointed his camera 90 degrees away from me and started going that way without making sure I knew, and he keep going! I went after him and signaled he was to follow the predefined route; he gave me the OK sig. It wasn't 2 minutes later that I looked at him and he was going the opposite direction. I went back got him and signaled he was to go the way we planned. At this point the divemaster was watching all of this and came over. The divemaster took the video camera from him. He didn't argue (kind of hard to do 15 meters lol) so we then continued our dive. He was fine and followed me to the letter. Great I thought, that was short lived. The divemaster gave the camera back to him. Then it started all over until we the divemaster and I grabbed his tank and escorted him in the direction we wanted him to go. I waved off the divemaster and keep a hold of him, making sure he knew I was now in charge of his direction. I noticed something else, he keep his knees bent while trying to propel himself. He was going nowhere fast so he got a free ride from me as I one handed clicked off some pictures of my own. I didn't get but a hand full of pictures that dive. I was intent of making sure he didn't get into trouble and watched him like a hawk even taking note on his air consumption as I noticed he wasn’t doing very often.
At the end of the dive was the scariest part, he went up past the safety stop and I motioned to him to come back down, this happen several times too, he eventually did come back to me at 26 feet. I grabbed the front of his BC strap and made him stay with me and he again didn't argue with me...lol Ok so now where at 26 feet and I notice my dive computer is saying 14 feet, hmmmmm problem, but I was prepared cause I noticed an anomaly in my first dive profile and got a backup computer from the dive shop. That proved to be a wise move. That is a whole story by itself.
After the 3 minute safety stop we both surfaced to find the boat and I signaled to the boat captain we were ready for pickup. I looked at him and found he had obviously ruptured some capillaries in his nasal passage due to the bloody nose he had.
When we got on the boat and situated we, the divemaster and I asked the man how many dives he had under his belt, he replied 5. We recommended he forget the camera for a long while and do some shallow diving with some experienced divers. I also recommended the proper way to kick his fins, with legs fully extended.
The bottom line is I will ask my dive buddies from now on about their experience level and inform the divemaster before I'm put into a situation I don't care to be in. I was fine looking out after him and was quite comfortable but the fact remains I made a mistake. I didn't have a good conversation with a dive buddy before entering the water.
Lesson learned!!!
 
Well, that definitely doesn't sound like it was a lot of fun, but it's lucky he had you and not some other five dive diver, who wouldn't have the assertiveness or the skills to notice he was wandering off and get him back with the group.

I also recommended the proper way to kick his fins, with legs fully extended.

I just wanted to comment on this -- this is the correct way to FLUTTER kick. There are other kicks (eg. frog kick) which are done with the knees bent.

And finally, I really wish more people realized that it is a good idea to learn how to dive, before task-loading yourself with a camera. Doing even a dozen dives or so where you can concentrate on your own skills and your situational awareness would help make photography dives safer and less stressful -- and probably also result in better pictures!
 
I just wanted to comment on this -- this is the correct way to FLUTTER kick. There are other kicks (eg. frog kick) which are done with the knees bent.
Agreed! :wink:

And finally, I really wish more people realized that it is a good idea to learn how to dive, before task-loading yourself with a camera.
I have even heard of divers trying to master their initial check out dives while trying to also master a drysuit, etc... :D
I know my pea-brain with only 2 brain cells to rub together would go into "overload"! :D
Unbelievable that he would try using a video camera with only 5 dives.
 
DiverRider

Your not far from me. I live in Lititz. So if your interested send me a PM with your information. At a minimum I can steer you towards some people to dive with locally. I could also hook you up with some group trips. I also often travel to dive by myself.

The more experienced you get the more you will find that you often get buddied up with a less experienced diver and end up spending your whole dive trying to make sure he/she does not do something stupid. Sometimes its because the DM has too many people to be in a position to properly supervise, sometimes it just that there are so many people of different skill level on the boat and the Dive Op does not know their level, sometimes its just the luck of the draw. I have been in that situation often and if I want to do my own dive profiles without having to supervise someone else then I have to look for the dive operators that cater to that type of diving.

In Bonaire you have that capability on your own and all that is needed is a pickup truck, a dive shop to supply tanks, and your own equipment and buddy of choice. No dive boat needed and hence no divers you are not familiar with. Now you just need to find someone that is willing to go on the trip with you and share the room and diving costs.

John
 
I have been in that situation often and if I want to do my own dive profiles without having to supervise someone else then I have to look for the dive operators that cater to that type of diving.

In Bonaire you have that capability on your own and all that is needed is a pickup truck, a dive shop to supply tanks, and your own equipment and buddy of choice. No dive boat needed and hence no divers you are not familiar with. Now you just need to find someone that is willing to go on the trip with you and share the room and diving costs.

John
Or no buddy at all. Bonaire is generally a very benign diving environment, so it would be a good place to solo for the diver who is confident in his ability and cognizant of the risks.
 
That reminds me of a story a diving instructor gave me about a woman who got talked into diving by her husband, she went on a dive BUT DID NOT KNOW HOW TO SWIM!!!

Needless to say, the whole thing was a disaster for everyone, luckily no one was harmed.
 
That reminds me of a story a diving instructor gave me about a woman who got talked into diving by her husband, she went on a dive BUT DID NOT KNOW HOW TO SWIM!!!

Needless to say, the whole thing was a disaster for everyone, luckily no one was harmed.

How did she get on the dive? It makes me mad to hear this kind of stuff!!
 
Is Willowsprings still being used as a dive site?


Yes, its about a 20 min drive from my house. The viz is always bad but it has lots of things to see and now they do not allow swimming so its only divers. The current owners are investing alot of money into the facilities.

John
 
Insta-buddy .... I could say that's my specialty !!!!

Most of my diving ( 75% ) has been while on vacation in the Caribbean, and 3 out of 4 dive vacations, I have traveled alone, so I have seen my share of insta-buddies !!!

Personally, I do not rely on other divers certifications. I have witnessed AOW certified divers with quite a few dives under their belts and still having problem with boyancy !!!

And how many 50+ dives divers who were scraping the ocean floor and damaging reefs and corals :shakehead::shakehead:

Here's a couple of things I look for when I get introduced to my insta-budy:

- I introduce myself and just chit-chat for 5/10 minutes. I want to feel his/her degree of nervousness.

- Look for my buddy's gear. ( I don't like to see new gear.)

- I keep a close eye on how he/she gears up ... Most common mistakes are: tank valves not facing the right way, not verifying valve o'ring, incomplete equipment when renting, putting on BC before weight belt ... Things that will tell me if he/she has little experience or is very anxious !!!!

On the other hand, I like to see a diver who will interact a lot with me and other divers. Diver who dives with his/her own gear and the gear has " experience " . Diver who is not shy to admit he/she has little experience and will ask for help when gearing up. Diver who is well equiped ( including mask defoger :wink: ).

I guess nothing is " idiot-proof " and everything is proven when we're underwater !!!
 

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