My goals (or lack thereof) for 2015

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So.... Dive season in Northern Europe is about to start, so I thought I would post about my goals for this year

goals:

Gotta have goals. As an instructor, a traveler, and a diver I need to make choices. This year my goals have to involve local diving for various reasons.

- goal #1: to make 10 dives with my daughter. I will (after 4 years of training her) certify her in March or April this year. I think she may have had the most comprehensive OW course in history.... but frankly... what can I do? If she died during a dive I would have to commit suicide because there would be no way on Earth I could face her mother.

I wanted to take my daughter to Egypt after that and do 20 dives with her this year but due to circumstances in Egypt, I think I will adjust and make 10 in Holland. My dream is to take her down on a North Sea wreck and show here first hand what I've been raving about since she was old enough to listen.... but she'll need more training.

- goal #2: train a few people. At the shop where I work I can get a butt-load of certs but I'm the kind of instructor who would rather train someone for a season and get 1 cert than to to churn them through the system and get 10. This year, my goal is to remain in the game and certify a few students who can take pride in having my name on their card.

- goal #3: to get a few "private" students this year. The issue is that I like AOW but I HATE giving it through a shop (and I refuse to do so). I taught it once on a weekend for weekend basis and certified, at the end of the day, a *truly* advanced student. He knew what he was getting into. He knew that he was going to have to dig deep and commit to a summer of "getting stick" and needing to practice skills for the same card that other students got in 3 days with zero skills. He told me, "I want to be an advanced diver, and I don't give a rats ass about an "advanced" card". I put him through his paces and after a season of training him I certified him for AOW but an AOW like you've never seen before. I did tell him at every step of the way that he had "met PADI standards" and that I could certify him. He kept telling me, "PADI be damned, I want skills"... and I pushed him. When I certified him it was a proud day for him and for me. He got AOW and several specialty cards. it convinced me that teaching AOW through a shop was not for me.

- goal #4: finish my Trimix course. Most of you didn't read this. In December one of my Trimix dives got derailed. I'll spare you the details but suffice it to say that it gave me enough of a "hang over" that I "parked" the course until the spring. There is more to say than that. For the last X (maybe 10) years I've been doing "free swimming" deco with my regular buddy. We can both control buoyancy to about a 30cm bandwidth in mid water without reference while swimming and navigating. I assumed (incorrectly) that other advanced divers could do the same.

- goal #5. make 75-85 dives this year. Normally this is what I do and have done for the last 30 years. part of that is usually the trip to Egypt. This year I may not be able to go on a dive trip..... but I intend to make the same number of dives.

R..
 
Good post. It's good to have Goals. I just have trouble completing some of mine.

But I especially liked the thoughts about diving with your daughter. I'm just getting into diving along with my 21 y.o. daughter. So I have the usual worries: (1) wife will kill me if I die diving and (2) wife will make #1 seem like a holiday if anything happens to daughter on my watch. This comes with the territory (marriage, kids).

The new feeling for me is having my daughter as my buddy. As in, MY BACKUP in an emergency. As in, someone I can rely on when stuff hits the fan, not only someone for me to keep an eye on. Don't get me wrong - she's a great person, and is turning into a remarkably sane and mature adult (amazing when you consider her dad!) And she knows her basics skills at least as well as I do. It's the 30+ years difference in life experience that I can't forget. That and all the stupid stuff I did at 21. Sure, I expect to be self-reliant in the water, but the whole idea of a buddy system is that sometimes you may need a little help. Or a lot.

I'll get over it, but I'm still adjusting to "putting my life in the hands" of someone whose diapers I used to change.

Well, maybe DIVING isn't so different from giving her DRIVING lessons... :D

-Don
 
And you should both feel blessed (and I know you do) that your young daughters are even willing to dive with you. I see so many dads that come on the boat and bring their diving daughters, who play candy crush, or lay in the sun, or check out the boys instead of diving with their dads. They will make one or 2, but neither one is really satisfied (he wants to make 4 or 5, she doesn't really want to be there at all).

Enjoy it while you still have them, cause some other guy is coming to take your dive buddy away...
 
I will alway cherish my dive time with my favorite Dive Buddy...my daughter. Now she is busy with life and fiancé so I now cherish the occasional phone call. But when I leave this island I want to be that really cool grandpa that is fun to be with, not the one that lives far away we only see at Christmas and a few weeks in summer...that is my goal.
 
Enjoy it while you still have them, cause some other guy is coming to take your dive buddy away...
Not to get too far off-topic, but I once said the first guy to ask my daughter on a date would find his head mounted on a stake in the front yard as a warning to the others. I've mellowed somewhat...
 
Not to get too far off-topic, but I once said the first guy to ask my daughter on a date would find his head mounted on a stake in the front yard as a warning to the others. I've mellowed somewhat...
Just drawn & quartered?
 
As I am still a cancer patient, with permission to dive, my goals are these:
1. Be able to keep diving
2. get in at least 4 open water dive weekends in local diving sites ( translates to 20-24 dive)
3. get in at least one warm water destination trip (10-12-dives)
4. continue lo lead at least one to two pool class per month year round (discover scuba, scuba refresher) to keep current
I used to get 2-3 trips in per year plus 6 or 7 weekends, but that is too much at present. But we are still here and blessed to be able to still dive and lead dives.
DivemasterDennis
 
Curious, Rob ... what circumstances would prevent you from taking your daughter to Egypt? I was in Hurghada in September, and the locals were practically celebrating in the street that westerners were finally coming back to town to spend their money. One taxi driver was so excited to find that some of my diving companions were American that he refused to take their fare ... telling them to just please tell their friends that it was OK to come to Egypt again.

Honestly, those were some of the friendliest people I've ever met ... has something changed in the last six months?

... Bob (Grateful Diver)
 
last year's goals are, regrettably, again this year's. Things beyond my control had the instructor never close the deal with me for AN/DP/Tri-Mix. Hoping to either get him on board, or find one who will..... also experimenting with sidemount.....

Summer will see me bringing my wife to Tobermory to experience the diving there.

By fall, I am hoping to know if the daughter will be able to dive, and then proceed with seeking out her instructor/instruction... I know the in-laws would take care of extinguishing me, so unlike Robert, facing the wife is a non-issue...

hoping the 20+ dive summer happens again.....
 

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