You will find that pretty much all regs follow one of just a few different basic designs, many of which are based on the RAM first stage. The second stage of that reg is really a nice performer. It is what I use on several of my regs. If your second stage has the dual (2 in line) exhaust valves, most of us do not use the outter one, there is just no need. The seat can be replaced with a Conshelf/RAM seat however the pin will have to be replaced, offhand I forget which pin you use but Greg will likely come back and give you the details.
For a pick, I use a straight stainless dental pick. The use of brass picks is somewhat of an old wifes tale because they will also scratch the brass parts of a reg almost as bad as steel but without the added strength of steel. If anything they may actually be worse than steel because you may tend to be less carefull with them. Just as with any other metal, brass comes in various alloys and can be hardened. Reg body and parts brass is fairly soft, making the machining of the reg much easier and there is no need for it to be hardened. On the other hand, a pick needs to be harder material so it will not bend and needs to be hardened (heat treating process) so it will not become dull. Hard brass pick + soft brass part = scratch. The way I heard it described was imagine taking a mahogony wood pick to a balsa wood part, both are wood but you can do a lot of damage to the balsa wood with the very hard mahogony pick. Bottom line, use whatever you want, just assume it can distroy the part you are working with, reguardless of the material of either part.