hmmm
The banter/humor has diffused a lot of the negative feelings in here...it seems to be comraderie building, IMO.
I liked the way Ber responded. She initially raised the issue of banter, to me, by saying "what do you think...." this always plays well with people. I was reminded of the notion that everyone doesn't appreciate too much banter....like I said, it can be rude. So, she was able to make her concern known in a constructive way....probably will have more of an effect on me than someone describing how important they are, how busy they are and that it is not fun to be here.
I love this place. Part of the reason is I don't just get one "correct" answer...I get about ten perspectives from some very dialed in people.
So, maybe if there is a nice orderly thread underway, we kids that were the ones that always talked too much in class should cool it. Or if we see things getting derailed, be more aware of it. I have been trying to take my banter to Hawaii forum or Dennis's photography forum, etc. So...for me the point has been well taken.
I think everyone should remember...wether you are an advisor, a mod, or just a member, "what am I bringing to the table?" If you goof off a little too much..spend some time greeting or explaining the steps of deploying safety sausage to some one trying to do it for the first time. I jokenly refer to it as "getting your stock up".
If you are heavy handed moderator, put some time in communing and contributing to the diving posts, and you will have the respect you need to enforce whatever you deem necesary. There are examples of this style in our ranks. Moderation will never be uniform and it involves some people skills, for sure.
Forgive people, and they will forgive you, etc.
I love the diversity here, and it makes it fun and most importantly, it lets the diving information be put in a context.