I am AOW (but light on the TBT), and my wife doesn't dive. Not that she doesn't want to, oh yeah, it's because she doesn't want to. Anyway, we are trying to find a vacation that won't end us up in marriage counseling (or criminal court). She suggested Bonaire over Cozumel because she feels that it would be more fun for her. From what I read the opposite may be true. Are these places nice topside for someone who likes to go to the beach, shop, collect seashells, etc. What have you married singles found? Is another destination better to make us both happy?