SteveDiver
Contributor
I had a party on New Years Eve at my lakehome and invited many friends and employees. One of my friends who I always thought had some psychological issues came to my party. I requested that the guests stay over-night because I do not believe in drinking and driving. Well...it turns out the friend that I suspected of having mental issues really did! She admitted that she is bi-polar! I am in the medical field and realize that people with mental disorders should not drink. It was an uncomfortable moment for me when I asked her not to drink because of her disorder and possible interactions with her medication. Apparently, she was drinking quite a bit and hiding it from me. Her behavior got REALLY bad! she was disruptive to everyone else. I tried to calm her and control her behavior to no success.
She really upset me to say the least and I asked her to leave grabbing her arm and walking her to the door. This was a popular decision as everyone at my party gave me a high five for the decision. Due to my concern and her protection from drinking and driving I called my friend who is a constable with a description of her vehicle and plate number informing him of the situation. He pulled her over and locked her up for the night until she was sober and released her the next morning. He spared her a ticket as a favor to myself. I feel awful about this! however, I also feel that I had no choice. I would not be able to live with myself if she hurt herself or others. We just now started talking a "little bit" again. She really needs help dealing with her disorder as it appears that she is getting worse. Should I attempt to speak to her about it? she has no family here in Houston or should I call her brother who is a MD? or just leave it alone? She really is a good person when she is acting "normal" however, she is loosing control of basic daily living ie: electric shut off, (inability to pay bills), get to work on-time or at all etc.? Part of me wants to completely limit conversation with her and not deal with it at all...
She really upset me to say the least and I asked her to leave grabbing her arm and walking her to the door. This was a popular decision as everyone at my party gave me a high five for the decision. Due to my concern and her protection from drinking and driving I called my friend who is a constable with a description of her vehicle and plate number informing him of the situation. He pulled her over and locked her up for the night until she was sober and released her the next morning. He spared her a ticket as a favor to myself. I feel awful about this! however, I also feel that I had no choice. I would not be able to live with myself if she hurt herself or others. We just now started talking a "little bit" again. She really needs help dealing with her disorder as it appears that she is getting worse. Should I attempt to speak to her about it? she has no family here in Houston or should I call her brother who is a MD? or just leave it alone? She really is a good person when she is acting "normal" however, she is loosing control of basic daily living ie: electric shut off, (inability to pay bills), get to work on-time or at all etc.? Part of me wants to completely limit conversation with her and not deal with it at all...