I can't answer your question about weight, because I've never dived in Puget Sound in anything but a dry suit.
They are very comfortable. Trilaminate suits are as comfortable as the amount of air you put in them -- they'll seal down around you if you want it that way, and that's not very comfortable at all; on the other hand, too much air makes them unstable. Compressed neoprene has a little stretch and, for my money, is more comfortable, and warmer.
If you put enough gas in the suit to notice, you're overweighted.
I disagree, though, that they're easy to manage. I suppose it depends on how good you want your buoyancy control to be. Doing precise stops in the shallow range is a challenge. It took me six months to get to where I could do 30, 20 and 10 foot stops within a two foot tolerance -- and I'm not sure how reproducible that is even yet. In my experience, the manageability of a dry suit depends on the dump valve position, the type of dump valve, how well it's been maintained, and how much air you have in the suit. It does take time to learn, and if you aren't diving your own suit, there's a learning curve for each one you use.
I have tiny (I mean TINY) wrists, which are bony and have prominent tendons, and my wrist seals leak NO water unless I am doing some kind of heavy work underwater. In a normal dive, I come out bone dry everywhere (now that all the leaks in my suit are fixed, anyway).