Aussie,
like Deco pointed out in his first post, the BCD is only a very small point of this whole discussion, regulator, tank placement, fins, they're all far more important than a specific wing design. That said, moving to a BP/W will certainly help quite a bit. I prefer Deep Sea Supply, I feel that they have the highest quality product out there, they're made in the US, great customer service, and very reasonable prices. Otherwise they're all about in the same ballpark with Halcyon having a slight edge due to their inner bladder design, but otherwise they are not really any better, certainly not to justify the price.
Realistically I think there are only 2 backplates worth looking at right now unless you are bound to a brand.
https://www.deepseasupply.com/index.php?page=rigs
Will be right at $500, very high quality, made in US, have the rubber grommets which is a great feature, and is STA-Less design which is nice. Lots of wing options to really get it dialed in for you, plan on at least a half hour call with them when you call prior to ordering.
Eclipse 30 BC System - Dive Right in Scuba
This is the rig that I learned in and feel that it has one of the best wing designs of the bunch *unfortunately for you it is biased towards the head/shoulders for lift, but I really love the design, but it is $750, certainly not worth 1.5x the DSS rig listed above.
DRIS Dive Gear 28lb BP/W System | Dive Right In Scuba - Plainfield, IL - Dive Right in Scuba
Basically a knockoff of the wing design, but is half the cost and has a lifetime warranty on the wing, so it's a much better value than than the blue H.